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How do I deal with this guy He's 29 (I'm 19) and he works 10 feet...

By coffeebarista | Oct 23 2015

how to deal with an older guy, who works with you? Avoid awkwardness and remain friends?

Now I'm Wondering

How do I deal with this guy? He's 29 (I'm 19) and he works 10 feet away from me. he's not shy about flirting and talking about sex. I know he is into me and I've considered it but it's a bad idea. we work in close proximity, he's not the kind of guy you bring home to your parents, and I don't want to get attached. I do like him though so I don't want to piss him off by saying the wrong thing. He's a direct guy and if I dance around it he won't like it and if I am too direct I could say the wrong thing. I like flirting and he's naturally flirtatious like me and I don't want to go past that flirting line. What do I say?

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23 Oct

Next time you have a date just mention it to him in conversation (kind of like you would one of your girl friends). I would assume from that that he would realise you see him as a friend rather than an interest.

2009

Top Commenter

23 Oct

And If he did happen to come back at you with "so when are we going to go on a date?" You could come back with "I'm not really a date where you work kinda girl, just don't think it'd ever be a good idea."

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