By anathiel | Jul 07 2015
Date or one night stand? When/Should I text him? When is it safe to say that it wasn't a date and it was just a one night stand?
Now I'm Wondering
I met this guy online and decided to meet him at a chill bar/lounge. I did not go thinking of sex (much less a one night stand), but it led to it. I'm aware I probably shouldn't have had sex right then.
After the deed was done, it was a bit awkward at first, but then we eased in with jokes and talking about politics and ended up talking for another hour before going to sleep. He was a perfect gentleman throughout the whole night, and even when we went to get breakfast in the morning. We spoke things like politics and personal aspirations, which are not things you talk about if you just want to make some small talk. Our conversations felt very natural. I think we really hit it off, but I can't stop wondering if it was a one night stand or not. Before leaving, he said he had to do some house chores and asked me what I was doing for the day later on. I said I would just chill and told him to hit me up later during the day if he wanyted to and he said ok to it, but I haven't heard from him yet.
When/Should I text him? When is it safe to say that it really was just a one time fling? (This happened yesterday)
Thank you and regards.