By pinkrose | Feb 03 2017
Things with this guy is usually hot and cold, mostly cold. Should I should I just stop with this roller coaster of back and forth? I think I keep going out with him because he's perfect on paper... I'm physically attracted to him ...I just graduated from medical school... and he's on his last year of medical school.... we're both the same age.... it all seems like it should work........
Now I'm Wondering
He does little things that get on my nerves and I usually end up pulling away. I like to consider myself pretty easy going, but this guy pushes all the wrong buttons.
-Met him NYE 2 years ago.
- 1st date – diner where he basically ignored me and watched a football game that happened to be on.... the whole time. We lost touch and reconnected last summer.
-2nd date - beginning went fine, but we ended it with a movie.... he couldn't stop talking throughout the movie, he even googled things from the movie to talk about; I couldn't wait to leave that date.
-3rd date - went to a bar to actually watch a game together. I still managed to get annoyed.... he invited me to this date, but he didn't really plan which bar we were going to, so it felt like little effort... again he was so loud, and he kept making fun of me, which wasn't funny to me... After that night I told him we should be friends.
-“4th date” - So as friends we went out with other friends to a lounge, and I had a great time dancing with him. Started to finally feel that connection I felt the first night we met. That night he told me he missed talking to me, I decide to still try and push us being just friends...
-“5th date” He asked me as friends to hang out at a bar to talk and catch up. When I got there it turned out to be a random extremely loud club. This club was also "conveniently" located a couple of blocks from his place. I was sooo turned off by how he could claim to want to talk to me and take me there.... a veryyy loud club, that I didn't even sit down... I left the club immediately and walked with him about 20minutes to find a bar where we could actually hear each other. At the end of the night he paid for my taxi and when it came he tried to kiss me but I pulled away.
Recently I invited him out with some friends to Six flags, but he turned me down.... Should I even keep trying with this guy?? I think I keep going out with him because he's perfect on paper... should I stop with this rollercoaster??