Am I just being strung along I'm just not sure.. i'm not even...

By missy_2 | Apr 15 2015

Had a great first date with a guy the other Friday night. both of us got on great and had lots of fun. he organised the date, followed up etc.

I texted him the next day to say i had fun and if he wants to do it again let me know.
He replied saying he had a great time and would love to do it again. A few texts back and forth over the next few days but no 2nd date confirmed.

I texted him last night in a cheeky text saying come have a drink with me Saturday night.. and not to say maybe.

He texted me this:

"Ahh Bollocks, I wish i coudl say Maybe, I've got to say no though sorry :( I've got dinner on Saturday. I might be able to do Sunday but I'm going riding and dunno when I'll be back. Not sure if you are free though? Next weekend?

Now I'm Wondering

Am I just being strung along? I'm just not sure.. i'm not even sure about how to reply!
i feel like hes just keeping the texting up to keep me hanging on and interested.. but i dont really want to waste my time if hes just playing games??



16 Apr

Thanks both of you for the replies! I texted him back with : "next weekend is fine. let me know what works for you." Then he replied straight away with: "I hope you didnt think that was a blow off" And i've just left it... im getting tired of the games.. even though i know sometimes they have to be played.


Top Commenter

16 Apr

I agree with jhops. You have to set the time, guys have no problem with you taking charge of your own time and life. It's such a weak stance to always go "ooooh i dont know, its up to you" or "whatever you want"


Top Commenter

16 Apr

And you just left it.... What?!?! He just apologised and clarified... And you think he's playing games?

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