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After two weeks without a proper conversation, myself having...

By love2sing4eva | Dec 08 2015

I thought he ghosted, and then he texts me saying I haven't spoken to him in a while, when I was the last to initiate conversation (it was the first or second time I had initiated a text). What's his deal?

Now I'm Wondering

After two weeks without a proper conversation, myself having initiated the last conversation, he texts me "How are you doing?? You haven't talked to me in a while :(" We go back and forth a couple times, and then he drops from the conversation. I didn't think I would hear from him again because he wasn't putting in as much effort as I think he should have were he interested in pursuing me, so I had deleted his number. We met off Tinder and have been on two dates full of great conversation, lots in common, he paid, and was a gentleman. There hasn't been any talk of a third date yet, even though the previous two went well. He did invite me back to his place after the second date but I declined, and he was cool about it. Is he playing the game and messing with my emotions for his ego, or does he just suck at texting? Should I confront him about it saying I'm not interested in games or texting, and if he's interested he can ask to hang out or something?

3 Comments

love2sing4eva

9 Dec

Is he still after just sex in texting me or is he wanting me to initiate our next date or get me to initiate sex? Not sure what the point is in texting if he's dropping from conversation and/or not asking me out.

bluesdetoi

Top Commenter

9 Dec

Sounds like he is JUST testing the waters and hopes youre still interested so that you can stroke his male ego, even though he doesnt want you. Stay away from this guy, youre wise to have not kept in touch!

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

9 Dec

I agree with what's been said previously. It sounds like either you were the back-up girl (and his first-place fell through) or this was his attempt to freeze you out because you said you wouldn't have sex with him, so he ignored you for two weeks. The ":(" sounds super douchey and manipulative (my scientific opinion, naturally).

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