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1. Do I expect to much, to soon or is he just not that into me...

By julianakaarud | Mar 28 2016

So I`ve been texting this for a week and we met last Sunday. I was just a casual hangout but we had really good chemistry and laughed alot. We even have inside jokes. I texted him later that saying I had a good time, and would like to see him again. An hour later he replied back saying he had good time to but he did not say anything about meeting up again. No I am confused…Do I expect to much, to soon or is he just not that into me?
Since we had good chemisty I want to see him again, but I also have other options so how long should I drag it out before it`s a lost cause?

Now I'm Wondering

1. Do I expect to much, to soon or is he just not that into me?
2. how long should I drag it out before it`s a lost cause?

4 Comments

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

28 Mar

If he were interested, I feel like he would've used the texting conversation as an opportunity to ask you out again. He did the polite thing and said he had a good time, but he didn't ask to see you again. Respect his decision and be thankful he's not leading you on if he's not interested. Delete his number and move on; you said you have other options, so date other people.

julianakaarud

28 Mar

I probably should do that. Thanks for the reply. But he do continue to flirt with me though, that makes med confused. But as you said, I will concentrate on other people.

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

28 Mar

You're welcome. If he's flirting with you via text but not making plans to meet up with you, then you have a texting buddy--that's all. He may also be keeping tabs on you by texting you every now and then (and flirting with you to gauge your interest) to keep you in his back pocket as a backup plan. You don't need to confront him about this (that is, "Why do you keep texting me but you aren't making plans to see me?"); to do so, especially via text, seems a little childish. And an easy response for him would be an explanation that he's busy because everybody is busy until they don't want to be. If you want him to stop wasting your time, then end your next conversation with an invitation for him to reach out. Perhaps something along the lines of, "I hope you enjoy the rest of your day. Reach out to me if you want to get together again." But when you send this, (1) be prepared to never hear from him again and (2) hold yourself accountable to this message. This message communicates to him that he should reach out ONLY if he wants to get together with you. So if he ghosts on you, this means you can't follow up with him to remind him (basically) that you exist. You also have to determine for yourself how long you'll wait for him to ask you out on another date, if he does reach out. For example, would you go out with this guy again if he texted you three weeks later? How about two? Hopefully you will have found someone better if and when he is delayed in coming around. And if he never contacts you again, then be thankful you didn't waste all that time texting someone who isn't really that interested in you.

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