So I've been dating this guy for 6 months, and 3 months ago he asked me to be his gf, and I said yes at that point because I didn't knew he was drinking that much. We met through a friend and entered into the relationship with clear intentions; that we wanted to get married and have kids (I don't come from a western culture, this is very common). Now I've slowly realized that he's the parting/drinking type (which is fine) but I'm super religious. I don't drink, never had sex, never done drugs etc. (you know all that) and his drinking is slowly getting to me. I feel sick to my stomach not for what he does (that's his life) but because I feel I'm compromising my values and everything I've learned from my upbringing. Talking doesn't work with this guy. We had an argument a couple of weeks ago, and I told him that I don't like him drinking and I tried to talk logically instead of feelings and then a week later he suddenly told me that he went to church. Obviously he's lying and instead of trying to make an effort to change, he's "covering his tracks" - which is the trigger point for me.
Do I break up with him? I really need some advise, and I have been crying a little, because I can't figure out what to do?
We have been friends for almost 3 years and he moved overseas (as he was only in my country as an exchange student). We had always been flirty but he's kind of an player...I know this because he hasn't had any relationships (he's 23). He used to hook up with girls every weekend and although I had a crush on him, I knew he would never commit. But ever since he moved/before a few months he was moving, he had been different. I'm planning to go to his country as an exchange student next year, do I have a shot? He has said that all the girls he met were only interested in hooking up.
Some of my other texts with him:
Him: I kind of blame the girls too…it’s like how delusional are you?
Him: Sex on the first date? Really?
Him: It’s like girls are so naïve
Him: I just hope you don’t get played like that…no matter how good it seems
Me: …coming for you, you’re an unique one ;)
Him: Haha shut up, you are too
Him: I don’t talk about this stuff with anyone you know
Him: If I try and share with guy friends, they think I’m showing off or something
Him: So naturally, I have to keep certain things to myself
Me: Aww so am I special?
Him: You’re like the only girl…or person for that matter that I’ve shared any of this stuff with
Me: I’m glad!! :)
Him: Seriously though, that’s why I got a little jumpy at the idea of you sharing this with anyone
Him: You’re the only one on the planet that knows this much about my life
Me: Wow that makes me feel dizzy
Him: Haha just thought I should clarify :P
Him: …not even my mum knows
Me: She shouldn’t!!
Him: Nooo. I mean you know more about me than my mum…mums know a lot about their sons yeah?
Me: Aw yeah I got it
Him: Well thank you
Me: For what?
Him: You’ve been most helpful with both listening and giving advices
Me: Aw no problem! That’s what friends are for right? ;)
Him: I’ll get you a fruit basket and some flowers
Him: Maybe take you on a date instead
Me: Dude! Sarcastic much?
Him: No for reals
Me: Oh yeah totally ;)
Him: Dude! Sarcastic much?
Him: You’re so mean. You never take me seriously. You don’t know what love is!
Me: Pshhh. I’m surprised you could even spell love ;)
Him: Go away
Him: So yeah I really want to see you
Me: Me too :( I miss your face
Him: One more year :) We can go to the taco loco place that overlooks the beach
Him: I could use my piece of chit motorcycle that has spider webs on it
Me: Aw we can sit on it and pretend to go vroom vroom ;)
Is there a possibility he would give up all the girls and just commit to me? Btw I'm turning 20 in almost a month.
So theres this guy I like who is 18 and im 15. Hes my best friends brother and he knows that i like him. Sometimes I talk to him on facebook but not often and when we talk its always me who starts the conversation.
Next saturday we have a halloween party and im going over to his house to prepare the makeup with his sister. Probably he is going to be there and i want to make a good impression and dont want things to get awkward. What shall i do and not do? thanks X
So met this guy off a dating site thing and hit it off really well-talk everyday and he's always asking questions and seems to care about my day to day life. He asked me out for a drink and we were meant to meet on a Friday but we just never got round to it. Bearing in mind I'm 17 and he's 20...and I've never done anything like this before so I'm slightly nervous of meeting him, but he's so lovely when I speak to him. We stopped texting for a while as I was trying to get my life in order but then I picked it back up again and it's so nice.
Problemo is that I'm kinda scared to meet him. Not that I don't believe he's a lovely guy but just because I've never done anything like this before and i don't want to ruin what we have over text...sounds silly but I don't know what I want from it.
The guy and I met on tinder and we started texting. It's been an everyday thing and we've talked on the phone. Three days ago he asked when we could come see me and we made plans for this coming weekend. He also said he deleted tinder because he likes just talking to me. But it's been three days of nothing. I texted twice and asked if something happened but haven't heard a thing. We really got a long and he constantly called me cute nicknames and complimented me a lot.
What do I do? If he moved on I just want to know? Should I text him in a few days?
Hey guys, I messed up really bad And I need your help!
Me and this guy have have dealing and hooking up for several months now.
He was supposed to get back to me about a party this weekend and he didn't text me. It's been a week since.
So I told my friend about what going on and why he hasn't texted me in a week. She asked me to send her pictures of the conversation from last week when he was really looking forward to seeing me. But accidentally sent the pictures to him by accident!! And wrote on it "heres the convo from last week, he was pretty nice"
The next morning he texted me "What does that mean and who was it meant for?"
So when I responded I just told him my guy friend of 2 years texted me and asked me about my attendance and if I'm bringing my friend. And that my guy friend was asking about him and I accidentally sent it to you instead. I tried to laugh it over text it like it was no big deal.
He never responded. I saw that he viewed my snap chat story not long ago so he obviously saw my text.. I know I messed up really bad, and it was an accident.
I know what I did turned him off. I guess the best thing to so is not text him? Question is, if he actually liked me, would he have responded anyways and not been turned off?
I have been dating a guy for 2 months so friday I wanted to clear everything out and first I told him that I was a virgin he said that he had some clues about it then he said something like i thought you were gonna say something else like the girlfriend title and he said that he doesnt want that because girls get crazy with that title and i will end up crying also he said that he moved here and he doesnt know who will meet up can be more compatible but then he said that he is not talking with no one else but me what does it mean? later I receive a text saying "thanks for talking to me! that took some courage. I can be distant and not the best communicating sometimes. But I look forward to hanging out with you and building our friendship.Your awesome!" what does that mean????! also after that we had plan before all this to go rock climbing there I tried to be distant because we just talked all of this and he was distant too but at the end he kissed me and said that he wanted to see the next week and we talked ... but yesterday and today I havent heard from him and we have talked every day!! maybe because his family is in town but thats no excuse
what does it mean??? what do I do??? HELP
So I dated this guy for a month but I didn't like it so I broke up with him and got back with my ex.
The thing is that he used to talk with a girl for years (she didn't live here but now does). So he started ignoring her when we were dating (she used to like him, but he didn't tell her to back off or anything). He saw her at a club like a week ago (after years of not seeing each other), kept staring at her a lot and now they talk like they used to he even invited her to get lunch.
She knows his cousins and they like her instagram pictures when they even not bothered to follow me. A friend of him told me that shes sort of annoying always talking to him but the fact that he doesn't tell her to stop and talks to her in a really sweet way makes me think he actually likes it. They have gotten into a lot of fights but always end up apologizing a day after but when we did we broke up.
Shes actually quite a catch but I'm scared. Do you think he can end up liking her after all? Whats gonna happen?
I'm Brazilian and I've met this guy on Tinder while I was in London, we had an awesome and perfect date and he suggested that we kept in contact through Facebook and Whatsapp, which we've been doing for over two months now... I may have a crush on him, but I'm cool about it because I know we are far way and all.
The thing is: he is ALWAYS the last one o text, even if it's just an emoticon or a laugh. And I start 95% of our conversations.
Even tough he make questions and stuff, being always the one the starts the conversations annoys me.
That's why I decided to stop texting him. But after some time without talking (from one up to three week), he would text me and we would keep chatting as nothing happened.
Why does he act like this? Should I stop talking with him forever and ignoring him when he texts?
I always start the conversations, he always ends them, does it mean something?
So, this guy is someone who I have hung out with occasionally because we happened to have a mutual friend. We started talking to each other about a month and a half, two months ago and I can say that we do click. I openly flirt with him, he openly flirts with me, we have nicknames for each other and he did tell me about a dream he had in which he got me pregnant with his child, which was how the nicknames started (momma and daddy). He's a really sweet guy, he was strung around by our mutual friend for three years almost because he had feelings for her, so when I do try to flirt with him, he withdraws a few times but I'm patient and I get why. I don't know where it's going at the moment. I know where I want it to go and I really do like him (I myself liked our mutual friend's brother for some time) but I feel as if I get varying signals from him. He and I had a conversation a few days ago where I said I was frustrated, he got the hint that he was frustrating me, and he indeed acted concerned about it and asked me what was honestly bothering me. I didn't tell him that I like him/am developing feelings/feel a little on the fence about what we really are because I've had a guy get scared off before by me being honest about my feelings and thoughts after some time of talking. I dodged the question but now I felt like I should have been a little honest. We have an inside joke (our "child") and we can have some extremely interesting conversations but most of the time, I'm the one trying to fuel it and he's usually the one responding with one word and it makes me feel like giving up once in a while. He has let me in at some instances and I can safely say we're friends, but I recently realized I've formed perhaps a small emotional attachment. I will say, though, that we have gotten a little explicit with each other over the phone. No pictures but there has been some texting and both of us enjoy it. That wasn't the primary reason we even began talking, though, it was just because we found each other interesting. Neither of us have cars at the moment due to financially prioritizing other things but he is a measly half hour away (which is definitely a shorter distance compared to CT and CA) and he does text me a second time if I don't get back to him soon. I'm just wondering whether I'm reading things right or wrong or if his intentions with me are romantic, because he can be that type of guy. And also, I've had more relationships with women than I've had with men (he is aware of this) so I don't wanna get too hopeful about things because of any misinterpretation.
I'm just wondering if this is heading to a positive place or if perhaps he wants something else from me.
I studied abroad in Paris last fall and I was dating a french guy while I was there. He sent me two smiley emoticons and then sent this message on facebook. I replied, but he didn't say anything back. However, he liked my profile picture randomly a week after I had already posted it. I also know he doesn't really use is facebook much--he literally only has like 3 profile pics and the most recent one is from 2012!
Why would he message me and then not respond, but then go and like my picture ?? Is he playing games or what? We didn't exactly end on the best terms the night before I left, so I was a little shocked that he even sent me this message to begin with.
My best friend is a male. We talk for hours every day and he tells me all his deep secrets. I feel strongly about him, but I have never told him explicitly. We could never really be together anyway, because we both come from separate (but equally strict) cultural backgrounds and our families wouldn't be cool with an intermarriage.
Anyway, yesterday he started telling me about a girl he met at work and suggesting that he might like her. I did feel insecure at that point because she is very knowledgable about things like politics which I am not so well informed about. (He's big on political discussions too.)
Some of the messages we exchanged are below - please read them from left to right. I have tried to include most of the relevant points of our conversation, but left out texts in between that were about something else.
Do you think he could be telling me about this girl just to tease me, incite jealousy in me and gauge my feelings about him? He knows I fall for things quite easily so he likes to play little jokes on me sometimes... I'm confused and upset and yes, I admit it, jealous :( I don't know what to do.
This guy I am talking to told me he had a friends with benefits. We aren't together so there isn't much I can do.. He told me this on the phone last night and I stopped answering his texts and he blew up my phone. About he will stop talking to her, and I can go through his phone.. Etc here is the latest text!
Is he into me or not? Do I give him a chance? Thoughts please!
So this guy I met on Tinder ask me to hang out with him and yesterday he said that he won't be seeing me anymore and it was really nice meeting me hoping I wasn't wasting my time with him. So I texted him morning after the text that it was nice meeting him. Anyways, after that he texted me that Hi, is it too late to say I'm sorry.
I don't know what to say. I also have ended a relationship three months ago. Should I inform him that too?
Do you think he's worth keeping and should I text him?
so people read ... we have talked to each other for 2 months ... at the second week he told me that we are friends and I approved , said : "of course we are etc ... " at first we used to talk a lot , a lot , used to send to each other novels about different stuffs ... then we kinda stoped ( not totally but kinda ) ... we talked to each other for 15 days every day , then stoped talking for 10 days and then he wrote me first ... then again we talked for 15 - 16 days , stoped talking for 4 days then wrote me again after 4 days ... then again ( sorry if it looks boring :D ) we continued talking for 12-13 days and then again stoped talking for 7 days he wrote me again first , then stoped talking abt 10 days and I wrote him first this time ( i wouldn't but he had an important event these days and i thought it would be kind of me to ask how it is going .. ) we are talking now ... but I don't know ... He talks to me ... He thinks I am cute ... sometimes when i say smth , he sends : :) :P ... i see he tries to keep the conversation going , but every time he sends me those i feel like he doesn't want to talk ... He has told me that he really likes talking to me ... he is 4 years older , 21 and 17 ... I don't think he needs me as a friend ... i mean ... i don't know that's whaat my logic tells me for now ... we talk a lot like friends ...
but i have no idea ... more time that it passes i think i am making it more obvious that i like him ... is this wrong ? what should i do ?