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I have been dating a guy for about 1 month from Tinder. Once we got exclusive I asked him to not have dating sites on his phone. He said he deleted them off his phone, but while 'checking' on him after a few weeks it said he was on '15 minutes ago'. I confronted him about it by showing up the screen shot, after he denied it. I felt so hurt and sad that he said one thing and did the other. I have really deep feelings for him, but I told him if he wants to be lovers or friends, because both come with differnt rules. He says lovers, but I want to be friends, but I dont want to loose him. I told him everything and he got defensive so I am giving him time to think about what I said and process his feelings. Yet I am being rational right? It was wrong for him to say something and do the opposite. My girl friends think I am right, and my guy friends think it is not a big deal.

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so I've been with this guy for a little while, and I really really like him, and he really likes me too. we're really passionate for each other and he's always so sweet. we're both sophomores in HIGHSCHOOL and we have 1 class tofether

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Does he just not want anything to do with me anymore?

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He really does want me to go on the Spring Break trip? Will he ask me to Prom?

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Long story short, met this guy on tinder months ago and we've hung out a fair lot at his house now and a couple of times elsewhere. I'm always initiating but this weekend gone he actually asked me to come hang which was nice. He isn't a text communicator at all! He doesn't ignore me or take ages to reply but we never have proper conversations through text. Any who I went over last night to buy a tv off his housemate (I get along with everyone real well) he asked me to stay then kissed me goodbye as he normally does. Mind you he only just started being affectionate on the couch in front of his housemates after months of hanging. He mentioned last night he wants to cut on drinking which we always do together and I couldn't agree more with myself. I wanted to let him know that I'm keen on sober hangs to seeing as all we do is drink. I sent him this today and he replied with that?! I don't know why he would reply with that it's not like we're strangers... Am I overthinking or what is this?

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How do i play this? How long should i wait for him to ask me on another date?

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Sometimes I wonder if I'm the problem. I meet a guy, we hit it off and then I start fantasizing about things. I let romantic notions and ideas get in my head and sometimes it really seems like the guy is responding.

Recently I met a guy online. We were emailing back and forth for about a month. He was quite into it, sending long messages to my shorter ones and it went along really well. We exchanged numbers and chatted. Things started going downhill from there. He would send me occasional non-sexual texts and I started getting the idea that he enjoyed our conversations and maybe wanted something more. When I started reciprocating he backed off a little and I got the idea he just wanted sex. Things started getting a little weird and he told me about having sex with someone else. I stopped texting him after that. I noticed he would log on and off Whatsapp every so often but only every few days. I thought maybe he only got Whatsapp for me and about a month later when I was feeling frisky and decided to text him and ask him how things were going. We met up, spent a few hours together getting along pretty well for a first date. I noticed he was fidgetted a lot like me and we laughed a lot. Then we had sex. I was tired and so was he. He was pretty good but he called me baby, said things like how tight my wet hole was, and asked me how having sex with him was like and how it felt to just stick my head into the bed for someone to fuck. He walked me back to my car but it was awkward and he wouldn't even look at me. I was confused and disappointed. Maybe I gave off the wrong signals. I noticed immediately when he deleted his whatsapp and didn't appear on my list anymore. I emailed him and he responded. I emailed him again and he responded. And this has been going on for a couple of weeks now. His responses have been brief and short. He has even mentioned things like "next time" and not to worry about the past. I know I should let him go but I'm feeling very sad because I thought we got along so well. He even told me he enjoyed himself. We were laughing and having fun. What happened? Should I just trust my instinct that said he just wanted sex and not feel too badly about it because at that moment when I messaged him that was what I wanted to? How do I save what little dignity I have left and just forget about him? Should I hook up with someone else?

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If the guy I'm talking to is really short should I be worried??

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I was at a club celebrating his 31st bday,the guys were my...

By rebeccabarothy | Mar 18 2015

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I was in the club for my bus birthday and two guy friends approached me and my bf got mad

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Ok so this is gonna sound ridiculous but I just need general advice. I've been single for three years and I'm finding it very hard as all my friends are settling down. As soon as I start talking to a guy, I put all my eggs in one basket with them. For example started talking to a guy and we said we would meet up when we are both free - this week- however we used to message non stop now he's stopped and only snapchats. I find it strange and annoying. I tried to start convo on what's app and he replies but takes ages to reply it annoys me so much. I fear I'm wasting my time talking to a guy who has no interest but this is a constant fear with all guys. I hate being so emotionally attached to nothing. Anyone else feel the same? Or can give advice on to stop being so needy?

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My bf broke up with me on saturday, but not really thinking it through. 4 hours later he was asking me how i was feeling and telling me he couldn't stop thinking about our last conversation. These last 4 days hes been calling me and texting me telling me he needs to talk to me something very important. He tells me hes sad and that Im Being unfair because hes been trying to reach through all the ways posssible. I don't know if I should answer or I should keep ignoring him a bit more. What should I do? Do u think he wants to go back with me? Because I do.

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By iamhellalost | Mar 15 2015

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Okay so me and this guy have been together for three months now, hes in a different city right now for vacation. He texted me early this morning saying he needed to see me as soon as he came back and that it was important. I asked why and he said he "needed to know the real me" , I asked what this meant and he is just trying to figure out what his sister told him is what i'm really about. this makes no sense to me, but we set up a time to meet up. This is a few days from now and he hasn't texted me anything else, he said he wasn't mad but has made it clear he doesn't want to talk. Should I text him and say anything? or just wait it out? It's killing me

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What, good people of 'hetexted', do you think I should do...

By lisamcewan | Mar 16 2015

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Background: This guy and I have been dating for one month and a half; we go to the same college; met in (so therefore have) one class together; and the issue that arises in the situation I am about to tell you is one that has already come up:
So today he wanted to see me, and, being a college kid who is always sleep deprived, I said sure but I was planning on taking a nap. He said it was fine and that he would come take one with me, which isn't unusual. Of course when he comes, he wants to do more than nap, but I tell him no because I'm really tired. He doesn't really take that as an answer, so he starts kissing me and moving me around and literally dry humping me. Sure, I'm not at fault here too. I kissed him a little and even toyed with the idea, but then said once again that I actually really do need to take a nap because I have a lot of studying to do, so it's going to be a late night. STILL, he does not stop. Finally, I get slightly frustrated and I make a comment about how he always does things even though i've said no and therefore he doesn't have consent (no, not sex. this isn't a raping situation). Anyway, HE GETS MAD and says that he might as well just leave. Instead of just accepting the circumstances and understanding that I am simply not in the mood, he gets angry with me because this is the first time I have ever fully turned him down, and he just leaves. I feel like it's hitting me all at once that this kid only likes me in a sexual way, because if he actually cared he would have stayed just to be in my company. But because we have a class together, in which we have a project we have to present, I feel completely stuck. What, good people of 'hetexted', do you think I should do? Obviously discussing the issue is key, but not listening to me when I say no is a conversation we have already had, and clearly nothing changed.

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Do you feel he might be attracted towards me?

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How can I express my filling to the girl whom I love ❤???

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Last month, a friend of mine told me he had a tumor. It just casually came up in conversation, but I was still a little surprised he told me, as he doesn't usually talk about things that bother him. He said he was fine, and thanked me when I said he could always come to me if he needed to talk. Then last week, he texted me to tell me he got the results of his MRI back - "the thing grew or whatever." I could tell he was upset (but who wouldn't be) and asked if it was cancerous; he said most likely, and he would need to get more tests done and possibly get surgery as well. He said he was really pissed off. I didn't know what to say. I told him I was sorry and and again offered to be there if he ever wants to talk (we don't live near each other). He didn't respond to that text, but I figured he needed some time. I texted him later to see how he was and he acted like nothing was wrong. I was so surprised and scared when he told me that I'm worried I said the wrong thing and he wishes he hadn't told me.

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