Hi everyone, the other day, I met a boy, Toby (friend with a friend of mine). We were a group of 8 girls and two boys. After one hour, it appears clearly to me he was closer to me than to the other girls. At the end of the day, my friend proposed to us to go to a nightclub the next day. We say yes, and when we arrived at the nightclub, my friend told me Toby was into me. We danced together, I have been drinking but not him. When he had to leave, I was going to catch up my friend but he held me back by the waist, and kissed me. After that, he disappeared...
Few days later, I added him on Facebook, and now we've just started to talk friendly about the nightclub and music (but not the kiss).
Now I'm lost, I really want to see him again but I don't know if he just wanted to hook up with me... It seems bizarre to me because he wasn't drunk at all, so yay I'm wondering about what I should do ... I don't dare to ask him about the kiss because I would be very ashamed if it was nothing important for him...
I've just become friends with this guy who is a friend of my good friend. He's very sweet and fun to talk to. He's flirtatious with me as well but I don't know him that well. He sent me this one evening and I'm kind of concerned about 2 things: is this a joke or is he serious? And is this a bit too much to tell someone so soon?
Creepy? Nice? Too much? I'm reconsidering his sobriety while writing this but... Thoughts?
So I got a job last September, and we opened a new, bigger store in April, which brought along plenty of new people. One of those people happened to be a guy who was pretty cute and also my new manager (ten years older than me, with a girlfriend). So as we got to know each other, we started being more.. flirtatious with each other. He made comments about me being on my knees, I made comments about him being a sadist yadda yadda yadda. Harmless stuff, it never went anywhere past work. Then he started brushing up against me and he would always stand really close to me. Like I had no personal space; move a fraction of an inch and we would be touching. It continued on like that for a while, and it started to be an on and off thing. He either flirted or he didn't. We'd have these little things like me owing him favors (I'm not entirely sure how to explain that, but it wasn't your normal "let me borrow five bucks" favors), him lending me his jacket and putting it on me, and him supposed to enlighten me on the true definition of the "f" word, since I apparently overuse it and it lost its true meaning. Eventually it led to us exchanging snap chat names. Lame, I know. And it kept being on and off. Up until recently, we didn't talk as much, his girlfriend started coming in to visit him a lot and I just lost interest. I also felt shitty for flirting with a taken guy. This brings us to last week. I got drunk with some friends and snap chatted him. I don't remember what was said, but we snapped each other all night. The next day we worked together and the flirtation fell back into place. That night he snapchatted me first, and this time he was drinking. He asked me to come pick him up from a bar, to which I declined. (Isn't that what his girlfriend is for?) He ended up giving me his number via snap chat, and I fell asleep texting him telling him to find a different ride. Work the next day was fine, and we snapped each other that night but nothing else came of it. Then for about two days he texted me (sober) like a normal person. We worked and flirted and then two nights ago he drunk texts me again and asks me to do shots with him and to come party with him and his friends. I again said no because I had work at 7 the next morning and I've done the whole coming in to work drunk/hungover thing and I'm not a big fan. And now I don't know what to do. I don't know if he's still with his girlfriend. I don't know if it's just a friendly thing. I don't know if he just wants some ass.
So what are his motives?
My ex broke up with me about a year ago after being friends since 6th grade, in an official relationship for 2yrs and engaged for one. His reasoning seemed something like he felt like the relationship has "run it's course" and that he didnt think things between us would change. Long story short, I asked him to reconsider which he said he would but he was really leading me on so he wouldn't hurt me. Instead of "working on the relationship" like he said he would do, he ended up leaving me for a girl who he was friends with while we were together. I was so hurt and it took me a while to get past because we were also engaged. He was still telling people he loved me and was awfully concerned about the guy I was talking to at the time. I was confused because I wanted to know why he would still be even mentioning me to other people if he was happily in a new relationship?... fast forward to now: he ended up proposing to the girl hes with -_-. Hes 19 by the way and when I found out, it made me question our previous relationship. He called me about 6months ago out of the blue, I suppose to see how I was doing and then recently he started following me on instagram. I accepted his request but didnt follow back. Then he started trying to communicate with me through ask.fm. he first, he brouvht up an inside joke that we used to laugh about in niddle school (even though ask.fm is anonymous I immediately knew it was him.) Then, I startrd getting questions like "are you in love" which im sure it was him because that's a pretty personal question to ask. Then he asked if "there will be reconciliation in our future." I played dumb just to see if he'd finally reveal himself. He said "would you reconcile with the 'ring holder' friendship wise" then he direct messaged me on instagram with a screenshot of the questions he'd ask and captioned it "friendly reconcile " I was quite shocked and confused.
Why on earth would he be trying to be friends after 1yr has passed. I could see if we didnt end on bad terms but this isnt the case. Also, if he is engaged, why would he think this is appropriate given his situation. Why is he even still thinking about having me in his life if hes truly happy with his so called "fiancé"? What do you think his intentions are? Could he be plotting?
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my problem.
I am 33 and am an alcoholic. The individual in this issue is also a user.
It directly relates to my story. I met him one night as he had no where to go as his girlfriend kicked him out as she doesn't allow him to use. We slept together and I allow him to do whatever he wants after all who am I to judge.
He continually talks about her and one day he just went back. This cycle keeps repeating itself. She kicks him out, I take him back, he leaves. I can't say no to him. I'm in live with him and having a drug problem does not make you a bad person. I recently found out while he was away he wrote to her everyday pages of letters. He says he hates her and she's crazy and he's using her so why write letters and keep going back when he can stay here. He left again and said he's not going back this time. He's also trying to get better.
Should I believe him or will he go back to her? Is he still in love with her?
Please no rude comments about our issues. Life is hard enough as it is.
I met this guy at a university in France where he was a student for one semester. He went back to his home in Germany once the semester was over but we still keep in touch through messaging. We communicate very well with each other and I have started to develop feelings for him. I'm not sure if he feels the same way, so I asked him if he was seeing anyone to get a better idea.
By his reply, it seems as though he's friendzoning me and letting me down easy. Is that the case? The only other thing I can think of is that he may also like me back but isn't going to make a move unless he's sure. I just don't really know what to think with an answer like that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
So I have the same boyfriend as last time still the one I had problems with... I sent him 5 paragraphs of how I feel about him & he gives me 3 words & when I tried to call him he texted me " don't call " ... Then I said Okayy.... And he hasn't answered me back... Is this normal ? Did I do these 5 paragraphs for nothing ?
Haven't spoken to him in a week or so then texted him asking if he was working, I went and saw him and spent about 20 mins with him after my movie talking. We were flirty and he didn't want to go back to work. The top 2 pics were before I saw him and the bottom is after.
Why did he call me 'dawg' and what does this sound like?
I met this guy from Tinder two nights ago, it's been about three years since we both have been in serious relationships.
What does his recent admission to liking me a lot "already," and being "scared about what's to come" indicate about his personality? How should I proceed?
I met this guy online, we hit it off since we start chatting, we met two weeks ago in person after he txt me if I want to hang out again when will I be available I told him that this upcoming weekend will be fine. He said that cool too but he will lets know for sure,. He txt me Friday night let me know that his friend came to visit him n is trying to figure out to see if he could find time to hang with me. He suggested that invite some friends of mine and we could hang out. I told him I have friend but not available (single) he said its cool so he said that we could hang out the 3 of us. I was kind ? It because I just met the guy ... I did wanted to hang out with him but then I will feel weird with his friend! So he had suggested to meet on saturday at this place @ 1 but I couldn't so I suggested for Sunday but he said that he can't Sunday because USA was playing n he wanted to watch the game. Below is texts that follow our conversation
He has not txt me since I send him my response. Should I txt him or did he just didn't like my response that he lost interest?
Been crushing on this guy at work for about 4 months and in that time we became really good work buddies. Around month 3 we finally hung out outside of work and it was amazing (we have kicked it several times since both alone and with co-workers)! He opens doors, pays for drinks, and we just laugh and talk about anything until the sun comes up.
He invited me to a family function where I ended up spending the night (nothing happened). We spent most of the next day together and even made breakfast with his family.
He invited me to another family family function where I got super hammered and even threw up...basically in front of him (gross I know). After I went to rinse my mouth out with every cleaning product possible. He got me some water, gave me a big hug and said he really liked holding me. We cuddled on the couch away from the party, he started kissing my forehead, I looked up at him and we kissed for the first time. He said I was beautiful and we made out for the rest of the night.
We connect on so many levels but his communication is not good at all. We have made concrete plans to hang out and he has cancelled about 3 times (all happened before we ever kissed). The caveat, every time he has cancelled it was because he had to do something with his family. The question is, will we hang out again even though we don't work together anymore, or is he just playing?