I'm Brazilian and I've met this guy on Tinder while I was in London, we had an awesome and perfect date and he suggested that we kept in contact through Facebook and Whatsapp, which we've been doing for over two months now... I may have a crush on him, but I'm cool about it because I know we are far way and all.
The thing is: he is ALWAYS the last one o text, even if it's just an emoticon or a laugh. And I start 95% of our conversations.
Even tough he make questions and stuff, being always the one the starts the conversations annoys me.
That's why I decided to stop texting him. But after some time without talking (from one up to three week), he would text me and we would keep chatting as nothing happened.
Why does he act like this? Should I stop talking with him forever and ignoring him when he texts?
I always start the conversations, he always ends them, does it mean something?
So, this guy is someone who I have hung out with occasionally because we happened to have a mutual friend. We started talking to each other about a month and a half, two months ago and I can say that we do click. I openly flirt with him, he openly flirts with me, we have nicknames for each other and he did tell me about a dream he had in which he got me pregnant with his child, which was how the nicknames started (momma and daddy). He's a really sweet guy, he was strung around by our mutual friend for three years almost because he had feelings for her, so when I do try to flirt with him, he withdraws a few times but I'm patient and I get why. I don't know where it's going at the moment. I know where I want it to go and I really do like him (I myself liked our mutual friend's brother for some time) but I feel as if I get varying signals from him. He and I had a conversation a few days ago where I said I was frustrated, he got the hint that he was frustrating me, and he indeed acted concerned about it and asked me what was honestly bothering me. I didn't tell him that I like him/am developing feelings/feel a little on the fence about what we really are because I've had a guy get scared off before by me being honest about my feelings and thoughts after some time of talking. I dodged the question but now I felt like I should have been a little honest. We have an inside joke (our "child") and we can have some extremely interesting conversations but most of the time, I'm the one trying to fuel it and he's usually the one responding with one word and it makes me feel like giving up once in a while. He has let me in at some instances and I can safely say we're friends, but I recently realized I've formed perhaps a small emotional attachment. I will say, though, that we have gotten a little explicit with each other over the phone. No pictures but there has been some texting and both of us enjoy it. That wasn't the primary reason we even began talking, though, it was just because we found each other interesting. Neither of us have cars at the moment due to financially prioritizing other things but he is a measly half hour away (which is definitely a shorter distance compared to CT and CA) and he does text me a second time if I don't get back to him soon. I'm just wondering whether I'm reading things right or wrong or if his intentions with me are romantic, because he can be that type of guy. And also, I've had more relationships with women than I've had with men (he is aware of this) so I don't wanna get too hopeful about things because of any misinterpretation.
I'm just wondering if this is heading to a positive place or if perhaps he wants something else from me.
I studied abroad in Paris last fall and I was dating a french guy while I was there. He sent me two smiley emoticons and then sent this message on facebook. I replied, but he didn't say anything back. However, he liked my profile picture randomly a week after I had already posted it. I also know he doesn't really use is facebook much--he literally only has like 3 profile pics and the most recent one is from 2012!
Why would he message me and then not respond, but then go and like my picture ?? Is he playing games or what? We didn't exactly end on the best terms the night before I left, so I was a little shocked that he even sent me this message to begin with.
My best friend is a male. We talk for hours every day and he tells me all his deep secrets. I feel strongly about him, but I have never told him explicitly. We could never really be together anyway, because we both come from separate (but equally strict) cultural backgrounds and our families wouldn't be cool with an intermarriage.
Anyway, yesterday he started telling me about a girl he met at work and suggesting that he might like her. I did feel insecure at that point because she is very knowledgable about things like politics which I am not so well informed about. (He's big on political discussions too.)
Some of the messages we exchanged are below - please read them from left to right. I have tried to include most of the relevant points of our conversation, but left out texts in between that were about something else.
Do you think he could be telling me about this girl just to tease me, incite jealousy in me and gauge my feelings about him? He knows I fall for things quite easily so he likes to play little jokes on me sometimes... I'm confused and upset and yes, I admit it, jealous :( I don't know what to do.
This guy I am talking to told me he had a friends with benefits. We aren't together so there isn't much I can do.. He told me this on the phone last night and I stopped answering his texts and he blew up my phone. About he will stop talking to her, and I can go through his phone.. Etc here is the latest text!
Is he into me or not? Do I give him a chance? Thoughts please!
So this guy I met on Tinder ask me to hang out with him and yesterday he said that he won't be seeing me anymore and it was really nice meeting me hoping I wasn't wasting my time with him. So I texted him morning after the text that it was nice meeting him. Anyways, after that he texted me that Hi, is it too late to say I'm sorry.
I don't know what to say. I also have ended a relationship three months ago. Should I inform him that too?
Do you think he's worth keeping and should I text him?
so people read ... we have talked to each other for 2 months ... at the second week he told me that we are friends and I approved , said : "of course we are etc ... " at first we used to talk a lot , a lot , used to send to each other novels about different stuffs ... then we kinda stoped ( not totally but kinda ) ... we talked to each other for 15 days every day , then stoped talking for 10 days and then he wrote me first ... then again we talked for 15 - 16 days , stoped talking for 4 days then wrote me again after 4 days ... then again ( sorry if it looks boring :D ) we continued talking for 12-13 days and then again stoped talking for 7 days he wrote me again first , then stoped talking abt 10 days and I wrote him first this time ( i wouldn't but he had an important event these days and i thought it would be kind of me to ask how it is going .. ) we are talking now ... but I don't know ... He talks to me ... He thinks I am cute ... sometimes when i say smth , he sends : :) :P ... i see he tries to keep the conversation going , but every time he sends me those i feel like he doesn't want to talk ... He has told me that he really likes talking to me ... he is 4 years older , 21 and 17 ... I don't think he needs me as a friend ... i mean ... i don't know that's whaat my logic tells me for now ... we talk a lot like friends ...
but i have no idea ... more time that it passes i think i am making it more obvious that i like him ... is this wrong ? what should i do ?
I'm been seeing this guy he is 47 years old and I'm 37 , we been dating over a month , we hang out a lot at least one day during the week and the whole weekend pretty much , we are Intimate and chemistry is there , is just hard for me to read him , one of the things is that he already introduce me to his brother and his sister in law, and another weekend we went out with his best buddy's from his back home town , some days he texted and he is kind of sweet , other times is just what's up( something I hate ) lol but I'm no sure what we are ? Should I ask him about us? Should I wait maybe another month to see if he will ask me to be his girlfriend , I don't know if because he knows I like him , he acts like that sometimes or is just me been dramatic . :/ what should i do ?
We have been officially in a committed relationship for four months now but have know each other since middle school.
The texts before these read as follows...
Him: I'll tell you like this
Him: I love you like
Me: like what?
Does he really love me and I'm just trippin?
I recently got off Tinder and this guy whom I dated last Valentine's saw me there. I was like WTF I deleted the account and the app already. Anyway, he told me that he'll delete it too since I did but I told him that don't let me make his decisions/choices in life and he can get a girl faster on Tinder. He responded with what's on the screencap.
But I don't really like him. Is avoiding him okay or tell him face to face that he doesn't have any chance with me?
We've been together for a year and have a great relationship. Been best friends for four years before we started dating. For the past six months he's been mentioning almost every day that he wants kids with me. I think we're way too young (20 and 19) but his brother just had a baby with his girlfriend (23 and 20 years of age), so my
Boyfriend seems to feel like we're not too young. We're planning to move in together in a year - which seems like a right kind of commitment, time wise. Kids is just not even in my thoughts yet.
I don't want kids for another 5 years or so. I want to be with him in the future and I would love to have kids with him in say 5 years, but definitely not in the nearest couple of years. What do I say to not hurt him?
I met this guy at a party and we danced and walked around the neighbor hood he asked for my KIK and Instagram (turns out I was already following him) and we hugged twice then I left I had to KIK him in order for the KIK to save he texts me right after I got home we talked and he called me boo the next day I text him and he said that he was going to school and he had to sleep so I said okay bye and he said bye boo with a kissy face it's been almost two days and I haven't heard from him. And I'm worried beachside when we were dancing he asked if he could touch my butt and I said okay but I just said it because I didn't think it was that important. I feel like he thinks I'm easy and he won't even continue to talk to me.
Does he like me? Or is he busy? Or is he just not interested?
Was seeing this guy about 6 months ago, we eventually stopped talking because he kinda just stopped making effort. Few months later we would have random casual hookups. He moved away since then, but we're still in contact.
He came in town last weekend and he ended up staying the night at my place and having sex, but the morning after he stayed until 3:30 after ordering delivery and watching TV. Just enjoying each other's company. He went back to where he lives that day and I haven't heard from him since (except for the occasional snapchat)
When we have sex, he's extremely sensual. Always wants to hold my hand and cuddle after, pet my hair, and rub my back.
Is there any potential in this, or am I driving myself crazy?