I rejected the guy I like, what do I do now?

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what do i reply when a guy likes to text me but only says "hi"?

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I'm so confused??? what did he mean?

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I am slowly becoming my nickname ( crazy cat lady..) I went on a promising first date with a guy. Coffee and a good talk out in public. After to hours he went to work and we texted afterwards. We decided to meet up again, but he cancelled last minute saying he did not sleep well. A little bit shady. I said in funny tone " Maybe you should have gone to bed instead of texting me.." He then said " I did not want to end the conversation because i liked talking to you" He did reschedule to meet up two days later. Everything well in datingville! But then he cancelled again saying he was not in a place in his life where he was ready to date. I am no fool, and see right through silly excuses like that.

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Is he into me or not?

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Yes I do have a lot of growing up to do. Its true.

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How can I know what are his real intentions?

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A guy said he's scared of how much he likes me. What does that mean?

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What do you do about a guy you thought you were going to go more with but he hooked up with another girl while we were still going on dates?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 18 months. In splitting food expenses I am wondering if people have any advice as my boyfriend is much more inclined to splurge on food and convenience where as I am a very cautious spender because I equate money with security.

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So it's been a year should I be worried my boyfriend hasn't said I love you?

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WHAT'S GOING ON?

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Hi there! (Sorry my English is not so good, not American)
I dated this guy for about 4 months this summer, until he all of the sudden just decided it was best if we just stayed friends. This was after we had a huge fight, and I never blamed him for ending things.
I had trust issues from previous relationships and I think it got too intense for him too quickly. He also went trough a lot of personal issues with his uncle’s death and I guess he just needed some space to deal with everything.
During Christmas break, he started texting me again, saying he missed me and when I got back into the city I should come see his new apartment. He texted me on New Years, saying that he wanted a “New Years Kiss” when I got back, and it all seemed like we were finally able to hatch things out and I decided to give it a second chance.
I’ve been back for a week now.
First he said he would pick me up at the airport and I could stay at his apartment the first night in town, but of course I got a text when I arrived saying he couldn’t make it.
Then he texted me again, saying I should hit him up this weekend, I did, but he had to work, he always works weekends so I know this was a legitimate excuse.
He texted me again Sunday night, saying, “tomorrow you should come over, you would love the new place and waking up with my view everyday”, but of course he cancelled that too.
Now, I’m just so confused, why even bother texting me these things if your not going to follow trough with them?
I didn’t want to say anything to put him off and get angry, because I am still hoping I will meet him. Any advice on what to write him so he knows it’s not okay to make plans with me unless he is willing to actually meet me? I don’t want to sound to clingy and desperate, and I know if I get mad that’s exactly what I’m going to sound like.
I was thinking I should call him, and speak with him over the phone and just ask if he actually do want to meet me or not, because I feel like I need answers on why he is always canceling last minute, and quite frankly I’m walking around just waiting for him to text me again.

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Tindered

We met at a thrift shop then headed to my place. This was...

By lovelessone | Jan 10 2016

So, I met this guy from Tinder a few days ago. We met up that same night. We went thrift shopping, then I invited him over to my place. However, I totally said upfront that I'm only down to chill...like make out and fool around. No sex. No Relationship stuff. He comes over, first thing he does is make out with....that's totally fine. That's what I wanted. Then, we make it to my bed in our underclothing. There's just a lot of touching and kissing. However, we do a lot of talking and laughing, holding hands and things seem to be going great; didn't intend to have chemistry with this guy. So, of course, I catch a feeling like an idiot. I mean...it's perfect. It's been like 3 hours. It's 12am. He's like...let's take a shower and I'm like naaaah. Then we just got back in the bed. And know, he has work in the work. He asks me if I do and I say no. In my head, I wanted him to stay so badly. But, sometimes when I don't want to be vulnerable with guys I pretend that I'm not interested. And he's like..."man, it's 1am." And I was like, "bye!" Then he got up and left. I have no idea if that was a cue for me to invite him to sleep over or what. Because, after we went thrift shopping - he walked me to my car and just stood there...looking. I guess that was a cue that he wanted to come over. I asked him, "so, you wanna come to my place?" So, I'm confused. Before he left, I told him to text me when he got home to make sure he made it there safely. He texted me he was safe and that was it. The next day, I was like...if you ever wanna hang out, I'm totally down. Then like hours later, I asked if he wasn't interested. No response. I haven't texted him anymore because I don't want to come off as clingy and crazy. I'm just curious as what happened. If it was me that pushed him away; I honestly did not mean to tell him to leave in a bitchy way - that's a total defense mechanism for me not wanting to appear vulnerable. I've done it before with other guys. But, I just wanted your take on this. Do you think I could have possibly pushed him away or do you think that he just was not that into me? Thanks!

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Okay so this isn't even about love or anything but I need advice ffs

Basically I was really close with these two friends of mine and for the past 6 months I've stopped talking to them and stopped answering their phone calls. I just really don't see me fitting in with them anymore and I thought they'd get the hint? But yeah so one of my friends called me today and she was telling me how I went Mia on them and how they feel that I've let the 4/5 years of friendship go down the drain. I just told her that we went our separate ways and she kept asking me when the three of us could meet up. I said I work two jobs (which I do) and study so I'm busy. And she kinda got annoyed? She's like so how can we talk to you and I told her I'll call her when I can meet up. Am I doing something wrong? Fuck it's so annoying cause all three of us were like a trio but I started to dislike one of them and now I've just completely grown out of that friendship. AM I WRONG FOR THIS? I just don't understand ugh

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So I'm 18 years old and I have never really had a real rational...

By crazycoocoo | Jan 07 2016

My first adult crush... help please?

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