Was seeing this guy about 6 months ago, we eventually stopped talking because he kinda just stopped making effort. Few months later we would have random casual hookups. He moved away since then, but we're still in contact.
He came in town last weekend and he ended up staying the night at my place and having sex, but the morning after he stayed until 3:30 after ordering delivery and watching TV. Just enjoying each other's company. He went back to where he lives that day and I haven't heard from him since (except for the occasional snapchat)
When we have sex, he's extremely sensual. Always wants to hold my hand and cuddle after, pet my hair, and rub my back.
Is there any potential in this, or am I driving myself crazy?
So it's me again. I just posted about this guy I met from an online dating site and he texted me with options to choose from for a second date. Here is the text: "Next time you're free would you like to go to (his fave korean restaurant, he knows I like korean) , or I could cook you food and watch movies or we could go see the maze runner, well we could do all of them eventually haha :D" But I kind of chose him cooking for me and watching movies at his house. Yeah I know stupid decision for just a second meeting. I don't know what I was thinking.
Now I was wondering, I want to change my mind about going to his place but I don't know how to say it in a good way. I want to just choose going to dinner at the Korean restaurant. Any suggestions on what to say?
Have you ever had that one guy that you just can't forget? Well i sure have that one guy. He was definitely the first guy i was in love with, and the last guy i was in love with too... we dated for about a year and a half. But had to end things because he was off to university and i was still in high school. and we just couldn't handle a long distance relationship anyhow ( both from different small towns). we still talked for the longest time than he met a girl and we slowly made ourselves distant, which broke my heart even tho i had moved on to, so i had thought. any ways I'm going to college now in the same city that he lives in and we sauce each other a text every now and than and we want to hang out! Im just so scared, because every time i meet a guy that is similar to him i just want to stay with them, because they remind me of this guy.. and it brings me back to what we had! IN a way i want him back, but at the same time i don't because i should go out and meet other people in the city while I'm here. IM just sooooo confused and don't know if i should reconnect with him or not. Help, what should i do ?? He also texts me saying we should hang out a lot this year...
WHAT SHOULD I DO
My friends and I went to the club the other night where I met this really cute guy. He texted me earlier and I think my inner dumb blonde might've freaked him out.
Do you think he's into me? I obviously looked a bit silly with my text and it took him 2 hours and 15 minutes to text back. Help.
Met this guy on an online dating site. We been texting a bit and getting to know eachother. One afternoon of an hour or so of texting asking questions back and forth. He seems really excited to meet me, I'm looking forward to meeting him but also keeping it in prospective that he's just a man from a an internet dating website and all contact has been virtual.
He seems to have very high expectations and it's making me a little nervous. I definitely feel like it's a first day bc it is!!! How do I respond to this??
I met this guy through my ex boyfriend, (my ex and I weren't serious we only dated a free weeks, I probably shouldn't even call him my ex tbh) &+ at first we were just friends but one day we spent some time alone together and I started to think I could start talking to him as more than a friend. I did all the work of texting him and flirting with him. The first night we made it official that we were gonna start talking we spent the night together and the next day was good too. The problem is whenever we are out in a group with his friends that are also my friends too, he doesn't show any affection towards me like nobody would even know that me and him were a thing. And I live at college so on the weekends I'll sleep over my guy friends houses who are his friends, and I'm now finding out he has a problem with it. But I'm not even positive he does because he hasn't talked to me about it. We haven't been talking for like 2 weeks now like we were but I've been with him in a group the last couple nights and he always says he wants to talk to me and then doesn't and I drive back to school all confused.
I guess my question is, what do I do?!?! Should I man up and ask him why we stopped talking? Should I let it go? Wait for him? I really like this guy a lot and I can't continue to be around him and not be with him
I posted a few days ago asking how to politely cancel a first date with this guy i met online.
I basically just told him something came up and I'm sorry but I won't be able to make it. He replied that he was dissappointed and was looking forward to meeting me. He also asked "should I keep trying or have you met someone else" I told him I did meet someone else, and I'd like to see where it goes. (i'm actually in the very beginning stages and just dating a lot of guys now and just seeing how things go). Anyways he wished me luck and hoped things turned out well for me. I said thanks you too assuming that was the end of it.
and by profile he means my online dating profile
2 days later I get the text above. I didn't respond...Should I say anything? He's being weird and creepy now and making even want to go on a date LESS than before (which is saying a lot bc i canceled it.) I don't feel like it's my place to inform him of proper dating/texting etiquette either but that message is weird and out of line.
Best course of action, no response or say something to try to shut down texting for good. I already deleted his number from my phone.
So this is a bit strange but it's more to do with a friend than my boyfriend. It's probably not even the place for this but I just need some advice. We all met through school, she was my friend & started dating a guy in the football team & I dated his friend. Everything went okay for a few months until his friend & I broke up but she was still with her guy. He & I became best friends. He called me everyday & sent me funny pictures he's find & we basically told each other everything about our lives. I love the girl to death but I'm gona be honest here. She cheated on him a lot & basically treated him like dirt. She used him for money & joked about it in front if our friends & a lot of other stuff. He broke up with her a couple of times but she never accepted it. Everyone has issues I know but she's been through a lot & plays up on it sometimes.
Then I realised I had feelings for him & we'd started hanging out a lot more & he made it obvious he felt the same way. I'm not trying to be a martyr here but we waited a long time before we let anything happen between us until we were sure how we felt & wen it did we waited some more until we knew we were going to be able to make the relationship work. She lives in a different state to us now & I tried for weeks to make plans with her to tell her about us because I wanted to explain everything to her but she never had the time. So I called her one morning & told her & all hell broke loose. I know I'm the bad guy here but I love him & I can't change that. I just wanna know if there's any way she & I can come back from this?? Believe me she's had her revenge & then some & I'm not mad at her for that but he & I are making plans for the future & it's hard for me to think il never see her again.
About a month ago I posted on here asking for advice on this guy I was talking to. I wasn't sure if I should ask him where we were going because I didn't know if it was too soon or not and I was pretty sure he liked me. Some of you gave advice to just let things happen and not rush and am I glad I listened. Last night we went to go eat and nothing really happened physical wise. After he dropped me off at home he texted me about 20 minutes later saying he wanted to get on the same page with me. He wasn't looking for a relationship yet and he just wanted to take it slow and I agreed because we are both coming out of bad past relationships and neither of us wanted to rush into anything. But we both agreed on liking each other and to keep staying friends for now. We also aren't talking to other people which is a relief for me because I don't think I could handle him talking to other girls.
I'm just not sure how long I want to wait around for when I am finally ready for the next level with him. I like him so much and he is one of the most genuine guys I've met and he's worth waiting for bu how long would be too long?
So I posted more background earlier. My bf (36) and I (26) broke up after about 3 months. He said he had doubts/didn't love me/didn't see a future. Also he hated his job,was a bit depressed and didn't know where he wanted to live or what he wanted to do in terms of a job.
In my earlier post I mentioned he sent me a head shot of him on his trip about 11:30pm. I replied the next day around 10:30am.. our convo went as follows.
I couldn't fit it all so I cut out the middle part where I just described the show I was going to that night. (I posted a pic that night of me at the cast party and he liked the IG pic...)
The rest of it:
Omg, Why would you do that? lol
And the tarantula was actually in a cave
What did he seem so worried that I didn't want to talk anymore? I am trying to move on and I've gone on dates, kept my self busy with friends, but he keeps liking my IG pics and now sending me these "ahhh thought you didn't want to talk" anymore texts.
Is he just trying to keep me on a branch if he ever wants to return? He's making it hard for me to move on with texts like this. I do miss what we had earlier in the relationship, but NOT the state (confused, depressed, having doubts, him seeing no future. soul searching) that surfaced towards the end/ ultimately why we broke up.
Should I just cut him off? I feel a little bad doing that/ maybe still holding onto hope. He also said he didn't have many friends (he's foreign) here. At first I said I didn't want to be friends when he asked during the break up and then I changed my mind and said we should. He thought that was "grown up" of us to agree to still stalk instead of saying "you're stupid bye" and closing the door.
But I don't see how this "friendship" is going to benefit anyone except for him? He said that if i continued to be his gf he would reap all the benefits (gorgeous girl, prefect gf, etc.) while he knew I was working so hard and would only fight harder for him. Which is also why I ended it. He said that showed I had integrity and glad neither of us were willing to settle for a "half-assed relationship".
I get the relationship is currently over. But I'm honestly torn about wether I can/should be his friend? I know I would still get angry/jealous if he dated or got physical another girl. I told him this and he said he had no time for a relationship anyways.
I had just broken up with my bf and well I went home with this guy for cuddles and well it led to something more (I was the one who made it go further). Next morning I left as we both had work. He texted me first after. But he took 9 hours or something to reply back...
Do you think he was keen?
Imagine this. You meet someone and instantly hit it off. You have everything in common and finish each other's sentences. You text from the minute you wake up to the minute you fall asleep. You go park in a beach parking lot at night and just talk for a few hours about everything. He hugs you hello and goodbye when you see each other. And not some weak friend hug, he actually squeezes you. He says you can sleep in his bed when his roommate is gone and he will sleep on the couch. You have multiple late nights texting each other and suffer the consequences the next day but you still don't learn your lesson and do it all over again the next night. He tells you his day is better when he talks to you. He says your name in conversations to get a point across and you can't help but smile. He sincerely asks questions and remember what you tell him. But you aren't sure what your are because you haven't asked him about it and he doesn't bring it up.
Is he into you or did you just get friendzoned?
Dating for 3 months, spend weekends together and a few nights a week, lately started to not text as much and takes longer to respond, is he just more comfortable or losing interest?
Is he just too comfortable or losing interest!? Did he really forget to text back?
We are together, but we haven't DTR (defined the relationship). This is my first relationship with a guy and I'm so antsy about offending him even though he doesn't get offended that easily. (I'm the green.)
He kept texting me lol whatever or nvm. Did I piss him off because I really didn't understand him or I was just teasing? I really don't wanna mess this up
Is it okay if the guy you're going out with isn't very affectionate? Like he's great in a million other ways and really sweet to me, but for example he won't hold me when we go to bed, even though I told him it's really important to me? Feel like it's a silly question but it really bothers me, and I think it's probably something that's important to most girls.