Relationship

So I've know ln this girl for about a year now. I have been...

By benjaminkline | May 29 2015

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Will she ever come around to like me?

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What should I do if my guy friend who I'm not interested in like that keeps texting me late at night

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So one year ago I started liking a guy "B", but I never had the courage to talk to him. Back then in September he said 'Hi' but I didn't think it was to me. We went on school trip in April and the last day of the trip I thought now or never and so I walked up to him and started a conversation. Afterwards I couldn't believe I actually talked to him! When my best friend and I were chilling on the stairs, he and some friends passed us and he nodded! I was like really screaming on the inside.

One week later some of my close friends who knew I had a crush on him told me I should start a conversation before it's too late. So after arguing some time I finally sent him a message. It's been a month and we still are talking. We already asked each other some personal questions like fears, pets, ... He is really a fun person to talk to and he always comes up with a subject. He is really social and funny. And yeah he is also kinda popular and that makes me kinda insecure. He often starts the conversation. I'm afraid I'll annoy him if I start the conversation. But my friends say I won't. He regularly talks about training: "going to train tomorrow :) " and I never know how to respond haha

Two weeks ago I went to a party and he was also there. When my friends and I walked in, a couple of his friends turned around and looked at me. I really felt uncomfortable. They sometimes do the same at school. I mean what's that supposed to mean? And while I was standing with some guy friends he stared a couple of times. The same at school: whenever we pass each other we stare or smile but mostly stare.

So he asked me out before but I already had an activity. Last Saturday he said: "but I need to ask you something O.O do you maybe want to do something after the exams? ;p " I said: " yeah sure nice! :)" and he answered with " great! then you can over to my house :d "

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met this guy on tinder. interested or nah?

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Ok sole news for those who remember my post on my recent breakup. Yesterday night was the first night I decides to go out in a club with a new friend from work. We got pretty drunk and we arrived at midnight when it's still free and after 10 min,omg I saw my ex! First time we see each other after the breakup (10 days ago). He came to us and just said hi to me and my friend; made the casual 3 "friendship" kisses to both of us and said he'd see me later. After a while we went to have fun on the dance floor, as he was still sitting. Then sometime later I saw him speak to a girl, maybe for 5 mins. I continues to dance, never went to him. Then he walked again to the same girl to speak.. And in the end to me to tell me that he is leaving, said bye.

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after a spring fling dance at school a guy texted "had fun tonight"

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Relationship

My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 20. We've been together two years in...

By imgoingbackto505 | May 20 2015

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Why is my boyfriend friends with such douchebags?

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Relationship

Though my dad is racist, his attitude doesn't influence how i...

By lovingcanada_2 | May 19 2015

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dating a black guy, and my dad is racist. Should I tell my boyfriend about this?

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Tindering for 4 months

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This is a really weird, scary question- but here goes! I have been on one date with this guy who I met in on tinder. I am 20. His tinder profile says that he is 22 years old. Before meeting up I said to him randomly 'when's your birthday?' and he said he was born in 1994, making him 20. He apologised and said he didn't realise that his age was wrong on there.
However, on the date he accidentally said his birthday was 1998. I said 'excuse me?' and then he said that he was just thinking of his younger sister's birthday. I got very suspicious and did some cyber stalking- all of his friends look young. I googled him (I know, super creepy, I was just desperate to find out if I hooked up with too young for me) and I found a paper from his school, stating that he was in his second last year of school and it seems to be dated from this time LAST YEAR. I'm very confused.
The worst part is its possibly the best date I've ever been on and we kissed. The age of consent in my country is 16 and I'd hate to accuse someone of lying- it just all seems so suspicious.

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I work with a guy who I have been spending more time with recently. We exchanged phone numbers while on a work trip (mostly for practical purposes), during which we went to a few pubs with a group of coworkers. On the work trip he came to my hotel room (nothing happened) and have been texting sporadically since. Texts aren't overtly flirty, and he says things like "I appreciate you" and "I trust you" - when we see each other, he looks me in the eye and is nice, but maybe I am reading too much into his niceness.

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By onlygirl | May 15 2015

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I've been dating this guy for 4 months since I moved abroad. I have fallen in love with him. However, while here, I found out my dad is sick. My boyfriend has been helping me through this since his dad is also very sick. I am not sure what I want to do at this point. I may go home during August then come back to this foreign country to continue my work or go home permanently. I haven't decided. My boyfriend just told me that he doesn't want to do long distance because he's been hurt before. He also mentioned that he hasn't talked to me much since he has been thinking of what to do in our relationship. He has assumed that I already made my decision to move back with my parents. I have made it clear that I don't know what I'm going to do. I really don't want to lose him but this is really hurting my heart. I just want things to go back to the way they used to be because we still have time with each other.

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Been seeing each other for a bit, three dates or so. Made plans to see each other again at a set date soon after the last.

Through texting, was told plans were off, no big deal. Immediately got a text saying "However, I am available (day before plans). One of my friends has grabbed me to hang out but you're welcome to come.

Should I go? Actual invitation or not? Don't see the point in even mentioning the secondary plans, as we could've cancelled no problem, but I just hate the phrasing.

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Texted

Group-meaning a group of girl friends....

By perla | May 15 2015

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Does he mean love? or something else?

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Hi! I am devastated. My boyfriend with whom I have been 8 months just broke up with me. He came over to tell me that, we spoke for 30 mins. The main reason is: he is 24 and he wants his freedom. By freedom it means he can go out and do stuff with other women. And as he doesn't want to hurt me and cheat on me, he came to the conclusion he has to break up. I was shocked, even though the last 5 days have been weird. We also had like the whole last month SUPER wonderful. Like the best, he was very invested and I felt he sees us seriously. Had a trip last week together. And suddenly this. All the positive points didn't change his mind. And as I say I love him (I v said it once) he doesn't believe me. He speaks about us already in past tense. He sais he is greatful to have known me and will announce it to his family (which I love). In the end we were crying both.

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Mixed feelings about my lesbian crush?

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