I had just broken up with my bf and well I went home with this guy for cuddles and well it led to something more (I was the one who made it go further). Next morning I left as we both had work. He texted me first after. But he took 9 hours or something to reply back...
Do you think he was keen?
Imagine this. You meet someone and instantly hit it off. You have everything in common and finish each other's sentences. You text from the minute you wake up to the minute you fall asleep. You go park in a beach parking lot at night and just talk for a few hours about everything. He hugs you hello and goodbye when you see each other. And not some weak friend hug, he actually squeezes you. He says you can sleep in his bed when his roommate is gone and he will sleep on the couch. You have multiple late nights texting each other and suffer the consequences the next day but you still don't learn your lesson and do it all over again the next night. He tells you his day is better when he talks to you. He says your name in conversations to get a point across and you can't help but smile. He sincerely asks questions and remember what you tell him. But you aren't sure what your are because you haven't asked him about it and he doesn't bring it up.
Is he into you or did you just get friendzoned?
Dating for 3 months, spend weekends together and a few nights a week, lately started to not text as much and takes longer to respond, is he just more comfortable or losing interest?
Is he just too comfortable or losing interest!? Did he really forget to text back?
We are together, but we haven't DTR (defined the relationship). This is my first relationship with a guy and I'm so antsy about offending him even though he doesn't get offended that easily. (I'm the green.)
He kept texting me lol whatever or nvm. Did I piss him off because I really didn't understand him or I was just teasing? I really don't wanna mess this up
Is it okay if the guy you're going out with isn't very affectionate? Like he's great in a million other ways and really sweet to me, but for example he won't hold me when we go to bed, even though I told him it's really important to me? Feel like it's a silly question but it really bothers me, and I think it's probably something that's important to most girls.
I met him at a party and he asked for my number. He usually texts first and we have been talking for about a month now. He's a little shy and I don't think he's ever had a serious gf before. In addition to this text he says other sweet things. After I saw "TFIOS" he said we could have cried together. He also tells me to stop apologizing when I say I've fallen asleep.
I'm not very good into reading guys- I was just wondering what you think! Thank you so much!
Former coworkers that slept together last year and have remained in a very unique friendship; he is still on and off with his ex and grieving over the passing of his dad some months back. I simultaneously love him like family and also think he's the most attractive human on the planet. Im a writer and he's an actor that just got unceremoneously let go from the show I work on. Ive lost my muse, workfriend and fear that he wont stay in contact with me.
Its been two weeks without contact since he was fired and I cried my eyes out to him on the phone. Yesterday he sent a txt asking how I am. I want to know whether he was only texting me to get work gossip and why he didnt reply to my last message? Do you think he really does want to catch up or is just trying to be polite?
I'm 25. My ex co-worker is 40. A few years ago at my old job we switched office locations. I ended up sitting literally right in front of him all day long -- our desks faced each other. Everyone in my office Skypes, in fact, when you're a new employee the boss tells you to add everyone on your Skype. We started talking more on Skype. Eventually we ended up talking after office hours on Skype. He did a lot of freelance work, so he would be online in the evenings. I have a lot of long distance friends, so I just happened to be online as well. Eventually it turned into texting. It all seems very harmless. We never discuss questionable topics. Nothing sexual or flirty. It's always jokes, links to interesting articles, discussions about movies, what his wife and kids are doing. (Slumber parties, recitals, Halloween decorating, etc.) I probably talk to him just as much if not more than I talk to my best girlfriend. At this point, we know a lot about each other and have a lot in common.
About two months ago I switched jobs.
He still texts me every day and we talk on Facebook all the time. Plus, we've scheduled a lunch for next week.
Is it weird that he still texts me? Is it unacceptable to go to lunch with him?
Basically: Is he into me or does he just genuinely want to be my friend? Am I overanalyzing this because of our age difference and all the cliche "middle aged man twenty something girl" stories? Or am I right to feel a little uncomfortable?
Hey! I met this guy a few weeks ago and he's really wonderful. Funny, smart, caring, confident, talented, cute, and even gets along really well with my family. I don't have much dating experience (21, my only other bf turned out to be gay) so I'm pretty fresh at this. Anyway, he kissed me the other night (semi-make out?) and I felt so uncomfortable. I feel sick when I'm holding hands with him, or cuddling/kissing him. If I know we're hanging out with no expectation of anything physical, I feel fine, but as soon as I think he's expecting that, I freak out. We talked and he said he wants to date me, but respects that I don't know how I feel yet. He's so perfect, I can't understand why I feel this way.
Am I feeling nervous because I don't want to date him (no spark, just not a good personality fit for some insane reason) or just because I'm inexperienced? Should I try to push through how horrible I feel, or is that unfairly awkward to both of us?
Hi everyone, the other day, I met a boy, Toby (friend with a friend of mine). We were a group of 8 girls and two boys. After one hour, it appears clearly to me he was closer to me than to the other girls. At the end of the day, my friend proposed to us to go to a nightclub the next day. We say yes, and when we arrived at the nightclub, my friend told me Toby was into me. We danced together, I have been drinking but not him. When he had to leave, I was going to catch up my friend but he held me back by the waist, and kissed me. After that, he disappeared...
Few days later, I added him on Facebook, and now we've just started to talk friendly about the nightclub and music (but not the kiss).
Now I'm lost, I really want to see him again but I don't know if he just wanted to hook up with me... It seems bizarre to me because he wasn't drunk at all, so yay I'm wondering about what I should do ... I don't dare to ask him about the kiss because I would be very ashamed if it was nothing important for him...
I've just become friends with this guy who is a friend of my good friend. He's very sweet and fun to talk to. He's flirtatious with me as well but I don't know him that well. He sent me this one evening and I'm kind of concerned about 2 things: is this a joke or is he serious? And is this a bit too much to tell someone so soon?
Creepy? Nice? Too much? I'm reconsidering his sobriety while writing this but... Thoughts?
So I got a job last September, and we opened a new, bigger store in April, which brought along plenty of new people. One of those people happened to be a guy who was pretty cute and also my new manager (ten years older than me, with a girlfriend). So as we got to know each other, we started being more.. flirtatious with each other. He made comments about me being on my knees, I made comments about him being a sadist yadda yadda yadda. Harmless stuff, it never went anywhere past work. Then he started brushing up against me and he would always stand really close to me. Like I had no personal space; move a fraction of an inch and we would be touching. It continued on like that for a while, and it started to be an on and off thing. He either flirted or he didn't. We'd have these little things like me owing him favors (I'm not entirely sure how to explain that, but it wasn't your normal "let me borrow five bucks" favors), him lending me his jacket and putting it on me, and him supposed to enlighten me on the true definition of the "f" word, since I apparently overuse it and it lost its true meaning. Eventually it led to us exchanging snap chat names. Lame, I know. And it kept being on and off. Up until recently, we didn't talk as much, his girlfriend started coming in to visit him a lot and I just lost interest. I also felt shitty for flirting with a taken guy. This brings us to last week. I got drunk with some friends and snap chatted him. I don't remember what was said, but we snapped each other all night. The next day we worked together and the flirtation fell back into place. That night he snapchatted me first, and this time he was drinking. He asked me to come pick him up from a bar, to which I declined. (Isn't that what his girlfriend is for?) He ended up giving me his number via snap chat, and I fell asleep texting him telling him to find a different ride. Work the next day was fine, and we snapped each other that night but nothing else came of it. Then for about two days he texted me (sober) like a normal person. We worked and flirted and then two nights ago he drunk texts me again and asks me to do shots with him and to come party with him and his friends. I again said no because I had work at 7 the next morning and I've done the whole coming in to work drunk/hungover thing and I'm not a big fan. And now I don't know what to do. I don't know if he's still with his girlfriend. I don't know if it's just a friendly thing. I don't know if he just wants some ass.
So what are his motives?
My ex broke up with me about a year ago after being friends since 6th grade, in an official relationship for 2yrs and engaged for one. His reasoning seemed something like he felt like the relationship has "run it's course" and that he didnt think things between us would change. Long story short, I asked him to reconsider which he said he would but he was really leading me on so he wouldn't hurt me. Instead of "working on the relationship" like he said he would do, he ended up leaving me for a girl who he was friends with while we were together. I was so hurt and it took me a while to get past because we were also engaged. He was still telling people he loved me and was awfully concerned about the guy I was talking to at the time. I was confused because I wanted to know why he would still be even mentioning me to other people if he was happily in a new relationship?... fast forward to now: he ended up proposing to the girl hes with -_-. Hes 19 by the way and when I found out, it made me question our previous relationship. He called me about 6months ago out of the blue, I suppose to see how I was doing and then recently he started following me on instagram. I accepted his request but didnt follow back. Then he started trying to communicate with me through ask.fm. he first, he brouvht up an inside joke that we used to laugh about in niddle school (even though ask.fm is anonymous I immediately knew it was him.) Then, I startrd getting questions like "are you in love" which im sure it was him because that's a pretty personal question to ask. Then he asked if "there will be reconciliation in our future." I played dumb just to see if he'd finally reveal himself. He said "would you reconcile with the 'ring holder' friendship wise" then he direct messaged me on instagram with a screenshot of the questions he'd ask and captioned it "friendly reconcile " I was quite shocked and confused.
Why on earth would he be trying to be friends after 1yr has passed. I could see if we didnt end on bad terms but this isnt the case. Also, if he is engaged, why would he think this is appropriate given his situation. Why is he even still thinking about having me in his life if hes truly happy with his so called "fiancé"? What do you think his intentions are? Could he be plotting?
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my problem.
I am 33 and am an alcoholic. The individual in this issue is also a user.
It directly relates to my story. I met him one night as he had no where to go as his girlfriend kicked him out as she doesn't allow him to use. We slept together and I allow him to do whatever he wants after all who am I to judge.
He continually talks about her and one day he just went back. This cycle keeps repeating itself. She kicks him out, I take him back, he leaves. I can't say no to him. I'm in live with him and having a drug problem does not make you a bad person. I recently found out while he was away he wrote to her everyday pages of letters. He says he hates her and she's crazy and he's using her so why write letters and keep going back when he can stay here. He left again and said he's not going back this time. He's also trying to get better.
Should I believe him or will he go back to her? Is he still in love with her?
Please no rude comments about our issues. Life is hard enough as it is.
I met this guy at a university in France where he was a student for one semester. He went back to his home in Germany once the semester was over but we still keep in touch through messaging. We communicate very well with each other and I have started to develop feelings for him. I'm not sure if he feels the same way, so I asked him if he was seeing anyone to get a better idea.
By his reply, it seems as though he's friendzoning me and letting me down easy. Is that the case? The only other thing I can think of is that he may also like me back but isn't going to make a move unless he's sure. I just don't really know what to think with an answer like that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.