Met a tutor at a conference i visited. We had drinks together until late in the night after the conference. Not married, girlfriend i dont know. We had so many things in common. He often looked me few secs longer than you usually look at someone. So i think he liked me as well. The night ended after the bar. He wasnt trying to come up with me to my room. The day after, after our final conference, he came up to me and said i should definitely contact him when i am in his city. I promised, but didnt ask for his no. cause his email add is in the presentation book. He doesnt have mine.
When is the best timing to send him a msg? Or to send him a msg at all? If he was into me, would he have asked for my no.? He is a shy guy, so i think it was already a big deal for him to come to me after the conference. Whats a good topic to start a convo?
So here's the story of my ex. We had a relationship for 6 months and then he broke up with me. He told me that I could decide wether if I wanted to keep in touch our not. I told him that I didn't want to speak with him for a while. But I had one problem, my vest was still in his house, and we live 2 hours away from eachother. So one day I texted him because I was nearby his city and asked if I could pick up the shirt. After some miscommunication and irritations I ended up not picking up my vest.
He called me and said that it was a shame that I didn't visit him. So I responded and said that I can come over another time to pick it up. Then he suddenly was like: no I don't want to hang out with you and so on. We did not talked after that.
Then, not even two weeks later, he texted me a photo of himself as a kid asking if I think that was cute, and then started a normal conversation with me.
Also he knows I've been seeing someone and he didn't liked the fact i've kissed someone else after we broke up.. jealous?
So what is wrong with him? He thinks it's a shame that I couldn't visit and sounded sad on the phone, but when I suggest to come over another time he sais he doesn't want to hang out with me (which I understand because I don't want to either). Then not even two weeks later he is sending me this pic. So what does he want? Does he misses me or just want to see how I'm doing? Or just trying to be kind. To me it seems like he missed me but when I'm kind to him he just sees it as an attack.. Like he doesn't want me to think he is weak. Help me!!!
So, i was introduced to this guy last Friday at bar by a mutual friend of ours. We happen to be in the same profession and he recognized me from seeing me around. We chatted quite throughout the night, and he walked me to my car when I was leaving. We chatted some more, and he took my number, and I remember telling him I liked when people called, because every other person messages. He lives far from me, so i told him he could let me know when he was home, if he wanted. He made me take his number as well, and he did end up messaging me at 5am to say he was home.
He called me on Sunday night and we spoke for half an hour, and he said he hopes we talk again soon. I didn't hear from him in Monday, so I messaged him on Tuesday and we exchanged a few messages. He replied to all my messages, but just 'normal', not very emotive, just regular - so I figured he was busy and I had work to do so I said we'd talk later.
He messaged me on Wednesday night saying he hoped I had a good day, but I was already sleeping and only replied Thursday morning when I saw it, and we chatted intermittently all day. He has not asked me out, and has not called me since the phone call on Sunday night.
It's been about a week, and I have no clue whether he is interested or not!
The screenshot I sent is of our last messages on Thursday afternoon when we were both on our way home - I think he had a good opportunity there to invite me to go out, tonight, but he didn't. I didn't reply to his last message. (Should I have?) I have not heard from him today.
Is he into me? Is he shy? If so, how do I handle this?
Or is he just being polite?
I would like him to ask me out so I can get to know him better, since both of is seem to have busy jobs and can't message all day.
How long would guys message like this before asking a girl out - or after how many days can I conclude he just isn't interested?
Friends from high school haven't seen each other more than a year and we were Sexting yesterday and I asked him to have sex with me or do me? Then he said not right now and it could be change if we hung out
I wanna know does he want to have sex or just Sexting?
Ok so this guy used to date my friend (who is really really pretty like VS Angel gorgeous) and he's a year older than me (he's in highschool I'm not). He started liking my pics on Instagram and Facebook even if they're the same one! He liked my pic "like for a tbh." So I have him one that said "tbh I don't really know you but you're cute (;" he said thanks and stuff you know. Then yesterday he commented on an old pic of me playing soccer amonth or two ago and said "can I have your number?!(;" so I gave it to him. We were texting and he said he thought I was really pretty. And then he kept sending all these smileys and winkies. (: I told him I had to go to sleep (I'm sick right now) and he said "alright sweet dreams" omg how adorbs. Then he sent me a good morning text. My first good morning text!!! I'm kinda into this cutie (:
Does he like me? Will he ask me out soon?
So I met this guy online a week ago. We met on the weekend, and the attraction was instant. He is 26, and I am 20. The date lasted 4 hrs! At the end he dropped me at my place and went for a kiss bit I turned my cheek and he laughed and didn't insist. The next day I had a Xmas part from work and we were texting back and forth, he told me "dont let guys hit on you." I said " why not in the end, I m a single lady afterall. He replied " yeah, I m gonna have to do smth about that."
We met later after I was done, and just stayed in his car. We talked about relationships, and I told him I have never been in one and he was surprised how a girl like me had never been involved with a guy, but pleased. Anyways, he even told me that he wants kids before 30. I said I want kids after I am accomplished professionally, but we agreed is early to do that talk... We hugged and he kept rubbing my back and kissed me in the neck, I kissed him in the cheek and then stoped him and asked to take me home. He laughed and agreed. After I get homes he texts me and asks if I want to be his girlfriend, I replied that I need to know him more and then decide. He said " take all the time you need, I am not going anywhere."
He texts me everyday, using nice words. I met him again last night, we just chilled at a McDonald's, talking about stuff and I told him again that I want a relationship that will work that's why I am not in a rush to get into one without making sure that he is what I want. He said I m right and agreed to take things slowly. When we departed we hugged and he kissed me 3 times on the cheeks and I saw he wanted to go further but he didn't. I m glad he didn't.
Since I have never been involved with a guy, I am scared he doesn't have clear intentions. He looks very nice, has a Muslim background but not religious. Forgot to mention we met on a dating website. And yesterday I deleted my account in front of him, he was pleased and said he'll do the same.
How will I know he is serious about this?
We have been been friends off and on for the last two years and we have always seemed to get along. We started talking again yesterday when I needed help with my phone. We were talking today since he wasn't busy.
Is he honest with the "it's good talking to you too" or is he just being nice.
So I worked with this guy for 4 years he was my manager but we were friends,he dated a girl that also worked there so we all hung out and me and him were always kind of close I would talk to him About my problems and he would as well about two years ago I stopped working there and after four years of him dating that girl they broke up its been over a year .last feb we started talking and hanging out like all the time and yes we ended up doin something we really liked each other and he told me all the time .but I was kind of upset because he Didnt want. A relationship yet he was scared from his previous relationship so me bein afraid as well I quit talking to him and that really hurt him he tried several times to fix things but I started dating someone else for a bit and the guy took my phone which I didn't kno when he text me and told him to leave me alone I ended up getting pregnant and leaving the guy because he was a very angry person well I was losing the baby and in the hospital so I text the guy to see how he was and he had told me his mom had passed away and that he wanted to talk to me so bad . He showed up at he hospital and stayed with me the whole time of my surgery and took me home we met up a couple times afterword but because of what I went through I was scared and they were testing me for cancer so the night we were supposed to hang out I went for a drive to think like a long drive .and I just told him I was going home to sleep and he came to my house to bring us coffee and he seen I wasn't home so he confronted me but he Didnt believe I just went for a drive .we talked a little after that and I was jus going through so much an trying to find myself I didn't text him back as I should of .so he quit talking to me and I ran into him a few weeks later and asked him what was going on and he said he deserved to be answered .i wrote him a long letter to say sorry and told him how I really felt I actually really like him truth is I really love him but I've never actually told him those words .i asked him if we could go back to normal he said he was unsure then he just ignored me finally I got it out of him he's talking to someone else but yet when we talked he kind of looked at me like I miss u but I can't I told him he'd miss me one day he said e already did but he won't hang out with me because he's talking to someone which I get but he told me my mom he was confused and he really cared about me I told him that I think I liked him more he said it wasn't possible now he's ignoring me 247 and I just miss him so much he promised wed be friends but he won't even talk to me now I just want to make it up to him and show him how much I really like him but he's talking. To someone else
What should I do let him go and move on or wait on the one I really care about
So I've been seeing this guy for almost a month now, but over the last two weeks we haven't been able to see one another because of Thanksgiving break and now the ramp up to finals. Next week it will be finals, so again we will probably not get to see each other. We work together, so I do see him Saturdays, but this is work and we have kept our relationship a secret. Over Thanksgiving break we texted constantly, but it seems that when he does have free time he is either too tired, has school work, or has to be up early for work (our shifts start at 7:30).
I could tell this week he was starting to get really stressed by school work, so I have taken a break from texting him this week. I figure he will text me when he's feeling less pressure.
So I guess my question is if I am making the right move by backing off a bit? I figure I only need to worry if this behavior continues after finals when he has less on his plate.
I have known this guy since the end of last year, but actually got to be better friends with him this year. He has never asked me out and doesn't text me first, but he always pays extra attention to me. He answers all my texts immediately and picks up all my phone calls. We have a really great connection and chemistry...we always laugh a lot and have interesting conversations about personal topics(family, ethics, feelings). Almost every weekend some of his close friends (who I'm friends with too) text me to come over and hang out or come to their party. One night we hooked up, but only made out...he wanted to have sex, but I said no and he respected that. He kept saying how he thought I was a really awesome/chill person and complimenting me on my eyes, smile, ect. He asked me if I wanted to go out, but we were both drunk and I just laughed it off/didn't respond. He slept over that night and we talked a lot in the morning before he left. Now I feel like he is uncomfortable around me because finds excuses to leave the room almost every time I come to hang out and he seems nervous around me.
I'm wondering if he feels rejected because I wouldn't "go out" with him? I thought he might just being trying to get me to have sex. I'm not sure if he actually likes me or just wants sex. What can I do to show interest, but not seem too aggressive and scare him away?
A close friend of mine (He lives two hours away and it's hard if I get a chance to actually see him) started texting me out of nowhere.
I started noticing some good signs:
-His replies would be really fast.
-He would use some emoticons. (smileys, winky faces, ect)
-He told me some personal things.
-He would write: "Lol" if he found something funny.
-He'd text me from 9 AM to 12 PM (with "Good morning" and "Good night)
Also some "bad" signs(?):
-He something a says: "Whatever".
-He hasn't talked about dating or love (unless I ask)
We used to date through 7th and 8th grade until he moved.
How do I tell him that I like him without making it awkward?
So I have kinda been seeing this guy. He got me to kiss him on the first date (which I never do) and he got me back to his apartment...we just fooled around and I left before clothes came off. We have only met up twice bc we live an hour from each other (but still, I'm in his area frequently so we could have met more often). We have been texting back and fourth for a few months. It's usually him who keeps the convo going by asking questions. But I like him so I reply. BUT HE NEVER INITIATES HANGING OUT. he always asks if i'm around in his area. And whenever I say I am, he doesn't reply until the next day and asks if I'm back in my area. I am not even sure why we are still texting cuz we never meet up.
I didnt reply to one of his texts and he texted me again the next day apologizing for sucking at texting.
so i am so confused if he is into me or not. What do i do with a guy like this? I do like him. I just cant gauge his interest. I'm dating other guys, but for some reason I still like him best.
I met this boy downtown.. And we instantly clicked... By the end of the night he was my fb friend and then two nights later we went out again and he got my number and snapchats me all the time... My problem he's been hurt before he's always telling me how much of a screwup he is and how he gives up on everything.. Well yesterday it was a complete 360 we talked from noon till about 6 then. We stopped for a bit and then started about 730 and went till 2 am we literally talked about everything and anything I learned a lot about why the way he is.. But now today he's back to feeling down.. My question is what can I do to make him feel better? Is this going anywhere? We clearly like each other but idk what's going on with him. Am I wasting my time or is this worth my time helping him out and potentially going somewhere
Am I wasting my time with this boy? Is he not ready? What can I do to help make him feel better about himself? Cuz he is an amazing guy
Ok, so here goes.... I am 27 he is 34 - we have been talking getting to know each other as friends for 5 months or so
He owns a restaurant near by where I live and my GF's and I often go in there...maybe once every three weeks or so.
He is by nature very charasmatic and flirty, however before I even noticed everyone was saying how much he would flirt or pay extra attention to me.
We then added each other on social media etc and of course the social media flirting began...and then we exchanged numbers...he would invite me to private functions at his restaurant but never asked me on a date...anyway they physical attraction was clear between the both of us (totally not making this up in my 'girl' mind - which I know we are great at!).... As time has gone on I have found out he has two children - still friends with the mother, he then had a GF for 5 years which last week he told me pretty much ruined him (do guys say that) because she cheated on him with a female and is now a lesbian (ouch right?).... Anyway long story short we got rather tipsy last week and he stayed back at mine and yes we had sex...and he suggested breakfast in the morning etc...not thinking much of it and just more so fun we spoke for hours, great sex and breakfast...I was naturally a little protective, but he seemed a little insecure, he said he never knew I was interested he could not read me...but he is smooth (past athlete) I know these men, but there is something different about this guy...
So since then, I have learned men like to chase so we spent the night and next day together and I/we have not been in contact since...however knowing he would always be chased he did ask a GF how I was and 'liked' a few instagram pics hehe (does this even mean anything???
I think he believes I just want fun, but after learning more about him and his family etc, I am interested but think I have blown it...
Question is -
Do I contact him? (breaking the chase rules I know)??
Do you think he is interested and just cautious? (past relationships/kids etc)?
Do I just wait???
Okay, the same guy I mentioned in my last post dated a friend of mine a few years back. We met through mutual friends afterwards and have never met in person. My last post was about wanting to meet him. I am a cheerleader and he is a football player for the team across town. Tomorrow is our first basketball game and when I asked him to come to it, he said he might. The thing is, I talked to one of his close friends today, and he said he's still hurt over my friend who he used to date. I really like him, and we've been talking a lot lately.
Is there a possibility I can change his perspective on love, or is it a lost cause?