Ok, so here goes.... I am 27 he is 34 - we have been talking getting to know each other as friends for 5 months or so
He owns a restaurant near by where I live and my GF's and I often go in there...maybe once every three weeks or so.
He is by nature very charasmatic and flirty, however before I even noticed everyone was saying how much he would flirt or pay extra attention to me.
We then added each other on social media etc and of course the social media flirting began...and then we exchanged numbers...he would invite me to private functions at his restaurant but never asked me on a date...anyway they physical attraction was clear between the both of us (totally not making this up in my 'girl' mind - which I know we are great at!).... As time has gone on I have found out he has two children - still friends with the mother, he then had a GF for 5 years which last week he told me pretty much ruined him (do guys say that) because she cheated on him with a female and is now a lesbian (ouch right?).... Anyway long story short we got rather tipsy last week and he stayed back at mine and yes we had sex...and he suggested breakfast in the morning etc...not thinking much of it and just more so fun we spoke for hours, great sex and breakfast...I was naturally a little protective, but he seemed a little insecure, he said he never knew I was interested he could not read me...but he is smooth (past athlete) I know these men, but there is something different about this guy...
So since then, I have learned men like to chase so we spent the night and next day together and I/we have not been in contact since...however knowing he would always be chased he did ask a GF how I was and 'liked' a few instagram pics hehe (does this even mean anything???
I think he believes I just want fun, but after learning more about him and his family etc, I am interested but think I have blown it...
Question is -
Do I contact him? (breaking the chase rules I know)??
Do you think he is interested and just cautious? (past relationships/kids etc)?
Do I just wait???
Okay, the same guy I mentioned in my last post dated a friend of mine a few years back. We met through mutual friends afterwards and have never met in person. My last post was about wanting to meet him. I am a cheerleader and he is a football player for the team across town. Tomorrow is our first basketball game and when I asked him to come to it, he said he might. The thing is, I talked to one of his close friends today, and he said he's still hurt over my friend who he used to date. I really like him, and we've been talking a lot lately.
Is there a possibility I can change his perspective on love, or is it a lost cause?
We met online. Chatted a week or so, have a lot in common. He suggested we meet for dinner,to see if we get along in real life, so we set a time/place for Fri night and exchange phone numbers.
Dinner was good. Very easy conversation, no awkward silences. Another glass of wine and he walked me back to my place. Only 2 glasses of wine each over the span of 4 hours, so not a drunken mess, of course. Neither of us wanted the night to end and he came up. We ended up having sex (yes. I know. Risqué doing that on date #1. It's NOT a habit for me).
He texted the next morning (Saturday) saying he had a fun night and he hopes my day is going well. I replied a few hours later saying I had fun too and that I hope his weekend training plans weren't too messed up because of the unexpected late night (he is an athlete and was initially planning to train early. He came up with plan B based on the unexpected turn the night took).
No reply. So I texted him on Monday night asking if he would like to go climbing soon. No reply (as of Tuesday night). Of course, I realize I need to wait now, and he might just be really busy at work, etc... But I still wonder.
What really took me by surprise is that he took off his online dating profile sometime on Monday. Huh?
Am I reading too much into this and he is just busy? Why would he take the online dating profile after our date? Is it because of me or maybe there is someone else? Or maybe just a coincidence? If he isn't interested, why did he text me the next morning?
This guy asked for my number and ever since we've been texting nonstop! He keeps telling me I'm pretty and uses lots of exclamation points etc. he's really cute and I think I might like him! I think he might like me to!
Does he like me/will he ask me out soon?!
I've known this guy for just over a week and we hit off right away, we have been dating and up to the usual and just yesterday i was his girl but today he just replied to one text and has not replied to the rest.
So what's his game? Should I just chill out?
So I met this guy on Tinder this summer (no judgment right?). And we talked a lot, and never had a chance to meet up, but he got a gf. We remained friends, however. Now they had issues and broke up. And we still talk and I've been there for him. Now he asked me if I've ever mentioned him to my friends, and I said to some friends. He said he wonders if they think it's weird that I talk to a random guy about random things. I said that sometimes people who have never met have more in common than people who see each other all the time. So he said that it statically true...and then he said he's tempted to meet up.
Is he interested in me? I really liked him, but he got a gf. And now that they've broken up, I'm not sure how I feel about him.
Two years ago this guy asked me out. For some reason i was very stupid and decided to play hard to get because i didnt rlly want him. He asked me out three times until i stopped answering. This year at my college i saw him and OMG he is HOT! I totally regret not going out with him and now i want him more than ever. On fb, it says that hes in a relationship, but he last posted 6 months ago so he might not be using his account anymore. I got his number and texted him, he said that my name rings a bell but hes not sure if he remembers my face. I think thats a total lie cuz he was in my school. Yesterday i texted him by mistake!! So he called back but i didnt answer because i had nothing to say. So i texted him telling him that my call was by mistake and he answered my text (which i didnt expect) but he called me again, i picked up and he was like hey u called by mistake? (Like no shit! ) Why would he call back?
I know he has a girlfriend but i cant seem to get over him! I rlly rlly want him. What should i do? And i i cant do anything, how can i forget him (even though i dnt want to)
Me and this guy have a history. It started four years ago. I really like him and cant seem to forget him. Now i consider us as friends. We haven't spoken lately but he ALWAYS likes my pictures on instagram. Three days ago he liked the same pic on insta and then again on fb. So i decided to talk to him cuz i miss him. Our convo ended up well, he complimented me ( something he does rarely) and told me that he wants to see me next week in uni since hes going to be 'passing' by there.
Do u think he used the fact that hes going to see some friends in uni as an excuse to see me. He even told me that if i had a class he wants to go inside and embarrass me. I thought it was cute. Does he freakin like me or whattttt?! ( we've hooked up a few times during the years btw) as i said we have had a long history but we were never 'officially' together.
So I met this guy on a plane and I gave him my number, but now is not a good time for me to be seeing anyone plus I'm not really interested in him anymore. We texted each other consistently for several days then there was no contact for 3 days and he texted me this morning asking me how my break was. When I first met him a little over a week ago he asked me if I would like to go to a museum with him but we never set a date or time and he hasn't brought it up since.
What should I do since he hasn't brought up the date again so I can't really just say I'm not interested, but I don't want to keep texting him to lead him on. Could I just ignore his small talk texts and then he won't ask me out?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several months now but I've known him for about a year. We were really interested in each other and We hung out all the time and just always had so much fun. And over the past few weeks I feel like something's changed. We text everyday and I feel like our conversations aren't as exciting as they use to be and he just doesn't text me as meaningful things anymore. He use to always text me first but now I feel like I do it more. He also used to talk about loving me so much and how he wouldn't mind being with me forever and I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same anymore because he hasn't talked about it for a long time. But we hung out last week and he kissed me and held me and everything seemed like it always does.
Am I over reacting about this or should I actually be worried? Maybe he just needs some space and I don't what to make him feel like I am bombarding him. I love him but I am afraid that he doesn't feel the same anymore. Should be worried or just not do anything and see if this phase between us passes?
I met this guy in class and we got along/talked a lot. Our last day of class was a couple weeks ago so he added me on facebook and we messaged back and forth a bit. Last week, he asked me if I wanted to go get lunch or something together before or after Thanksgiving break. I said yes, he said great! But that was the last we have talked. It's been a little over a week. He also hasn't asked for my number or anything, all of our talk has either been in class and now, just on facebook
So, I have two questions. First would obviously be does he like me? I know he's really busy so I just kind of figure he probably just has a lot going on but I feel like, because he initiated us talking and the lunch, he would be interested enough to want to like, set an actual day and time, I guess/ want to talk more? I don't know but also I'm in a conundrum because I really like him because he's super cool and we get along great and I wanna hang out with him, but I'm leaving for an internship in Paris in a month and then when I come back, I'll be graduating and he'll be staying in school. So as much as I want to kind of move things along and go out with him and initiate conversation, a part of me wonders if it's worth it? Should I message him and set a date for the lunch or should I just let it go?
I met this guy at a friend's birthday drinks. We hit it off and have been on two really good (and quite long) dates, in which we discussed many things including activities for future dates. This is despite knowing that he was going overseas to travel for two months.
He told me has really enjoyed himself with me, but when I sent him a goodbye message telling him to stay in touch, he hasn't responded. Should I just forget about him until he comes back, assuming he would then want to see me again?
I am a freshman i high school. i have this guy friend that is a senior. we are pretty close friends. we text every day about just random stuff. a few weeks ago, i was walking to class with him and he said "a lot of people have been telling me that i should ask you to prom. and i would but your parents wouldnt approve of it." he said that he, a senior, would take me, a freshman, to prom. and then the other day, he was texting me and he was getting upset about his ex. so i was trying to cheer him up. and then this happened.
that cant happen, right? a freshman with a senior??? thats illegal, hes 18!! we are really good friends though and i dont want things to be weird between us. i havent seen him in person or texted him since those last messages. what do i do when i see him?? i really dont want things to be awkward, but i cant just forget that he practically asked me out twice!! HELP!!
So I'm a senior in college now, and the summer after my freshman year, I met a guy on the airplane. My mom introduced us and got us talking. He's a year ahead of me, but is now a fifth-year senior. Even though we only briefly met, we kept in touch. We even met up for a day when he came to my city for an internship that same summer. We have definitely kept talking, sometimes more than others. I've never considered this more than just flirting, especially since I ask a lot of different guys to functions and whatnot. He goes to a different university. Now he heard that I might be going to the same country he is for winter break, and he wants me to go visit him and stay with his family. I'm pretty sure that he's into me, but I've kind of been talking to a guy near me who wants a "casual but meaningful" relationship (rather innocent though).
What should I do? If I do go and visit him, and continue talking to the other guy, should I feel guilty? None of these are actual, labeled relationships...