I was dating a guy for two years he is 35 and I m 24, he ended it but still wanted to catch up on the side as 'friends'... two weeks later he started seeing a new girl and still wanted to catch up with me on the side, (I said I couldn't) since he had invited her away overseas for holidays coming up. I saw them together the other day and also the day after that and when I did, it gave me much stress too see he had moved on so fast, while she just looked at me and walked away he had the nerve to stop and say hello, I told him he had to leave and later messaged him saying. 'Sorry if I was rude, but it was just too early for me to see you both together' and he never replied to me.. I chose to delete him off Facebook and Instagram a week ago because it's given me the most piece of mind not knowing what he's doing. And so I don't have to see photos of what they could potentially be doing together.
Should I reply to him or just ignore it. He's overseas at the moment with friends, I don't know why he would keep messaging when he is apparently moving on with this new girl.
We met about 4 months back on tinder. Well we started talking two days before I had to leave the country. Now I'm in another country for my studies and I'm returning back this decemeber. We couldn't meet up even though he wanted to. We have been talking every single day about everything about our lives. He is pretty honest with me and he does tell me that if he met a girl. But he always tells me its never serious. And if I met someone and went on a date I'll tell him ( which happened once ). He knows I like him a lot. And he did admit that he does think about us dating. But since we have never met what ever is there isn't real and he needs to see the real life compatibility. We used to have smoking hot sexting and it was all fun, he used to tease and flirt. He cares a lot about me and even my family. And we cannot exactly stay without texting for a day. One day I avoided him and he was like, why are you mad at me ?.
He knows eveything about my life and he too. We thought about skyping but decided not to because we wanted to hear the voice for the first time. He is a very busy person but manages to find time for me. We text in an average of one and half hours everyday inspite of the 10 hour time difference. He is investing a lot of time on someone who is thirteen thousand. Km away. We are on eachothers social media, like facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram etc and keep updating about our lives, family etc.
Now the thing is, I just have around 17 days left to meet him. And I'm really nervous. And we always had this amazing online chemistry on. Even sexual flirting was perfect. Past one and half weeks he has been not flirting anymore. We talk a lot, he still cares. He scolds me when I don't take care of my health, he told about our meet. and try to make a conversation when I'm not replying. I know for a fact that there isn't any woman . last time he has been with someone was like a month back. He has been sick for a while. Plus he is doing his engineering so he is busy too. But there is not even a line of flirting. It makes me wonder whether he doesn't find me attractive or like me anymore.
I was seeing someone for 3 months. At first it went well but I'm not the type to fall in love quickly. Fortunately, I found out gradually that he was playing around and also kept seeing other women while seeing me. I decided to dump him because first, I don't want to waste my time and second, after finding out his habit of lying (saying I was the only one for him but also texts other women the same thing) I was emotionally done with him. I wished him luck while walking away voluntarily because without me, he's still happy with other girls. But this guy just keeps texting me out of the blue asking: "Is everything ok with you?"
He is definitely seeking for attention. What would be your best action if you were in my position dealing with this jerk?
So this guy I met him on tinder we were fwb until I left for college. Then all of sudden he started to text me that he wants to have sex. I meant I expect that because we were fwb. But then last Saturday was 3am in the morning, he texted me saying what's up blah blah blah then I asked him to come up to visit me in school (half joking) and he said he will then he drove 3 and half hours to visit me. We cuddled but no sex. In the morning he left saying his parents will worry about him. I kept saying that we were fb whenever he compliments on my look or my body. But he said just a memory. He's 26 and I'm 22. We've been known each other about an year.
While we were texting he said im a smart and cute sexy girl. But I told him that I don't believe it. And the fact that he drove 3 hours to just to cuddle with me at 3am in the morning... Idk. He texted me saying "thank you for having me :)" what is he doing? He said he doesn't think us as fwb just a memory. Is he trying to be nice? Or just to get in my pants? He could find another girl to have sex easily ... I don't understand.
My boyfriend said he wasn't feeling well and I was just kinda trying to make him feel better and said I would give him a hug and he said he was a germaphobe. It kinda hurt my feelings.
Does this seem rude or mean? Or am I just over reacting? Thanks.
So I met this guy at Tinder a week ago. He's english I'm spanish. Arranged a date on saturday after texting back and forth for a few days. We met at 9,30 pm and extended untill 4,30 am.
During the last hour he kissed me and hold my hand. Asked me to his place which I rejected.
Then I heard nothing from him till this morning (monday) and we've texted again back and forth all day joking around.
My doubt is I've seen he's been in Tinder yesterday and today so keeps talking to other girls. Don't have much experience on online dating and never met an english guy. So..Is it normal and acceptable? Do you think he is interested?
He's such a handsome and well educated guy and never thought he would like me.
So I visited Chicago and met with a close friend of mine and his gf. We went bar hopping on a saturday night and their friends came along too. I ended up being the only lady in the group of 8 (other than my friend's wife).
I started chatting with this 35 year old investment banker. He was thoroughly engaging and paid a lot of attention to me. He teased me a lot and kept making fun of me for still living with my parents. We talked and laughed so much that when the group was walking to the next bar we would lose sight of the group and he had to call them up to find out where they were. This happened Twice in a row when we were moving to the next location. He joked and said it was all my fault and that I was distracting him on purpose. He also told me that one of my jokes was lame. I liked that he didn't pretend to find it funny. While walking on the streets he then started to put his hand on the small of my back. There was no need for him to guide me as it wasn't a crowded street and neither was I drunk. He did this 2 to 3 times. I did not reciprocate by touching him but neither did I move away. He also did impressions of me to make fun of me and after a while he told me he was just messing with me, as if he thought I might be offended? We got to a club and it got a little too noisy to talk. After we tried shouting in each other''s ears a couple of times we gave up trying to have a conversation. He slowly drifted off to another part of the club. After that I had to leave as something had come up and I did not get to say goodbye to the group. The next day I added the rest of the group on facebook and realized he wasn't on it. I IMed one of his buds for his number saying I just wanted to keep in touch since I was leaving the city. His friend then responded that it wasn't a good idea as he had a very serious girlfriend.
Was he just flirting for fun with no intention of following through since he hass a 'serious' gf?? Or just being friendly? Does the overt attention and teasing and hand on the lower back mean anything or did I read too much into it? Do you think his friend actually asked him if he should give his number or did he just say no on his behalf? I checked out the friend's facebook and it turns out he is pretty close to both the guy and his serious gf. I feel mortified!!
Met this guy around Halloween. He is extremely nice and I get a spark but then the second date I lost it :( I didn't have an urge to text him but the fact that he disappeared for 5 days was strange. I kinda didn't care but i know he's super nice and genuine everyone thinks I should give him another chance and maybe I'll grow to like him more? I'm used to drama and poor treatment and this situation is unfamiliar territory and scared of it. I find myself creating drama and being kind of mean to make the situation familiar? I should see him again right?
The rest of it says I had plans and couldn't and he let me
Know to say when I'm free for dinner and I'll tell him sunday I just havnt yet..
Guy is so nice and I need to change my pattern and be into it
Okay so basically I met this guy online (extremely creepy I know, it's so unlike me) and he's 24 and I'm 18 (again BEYOND creepy I am aware) and we've been texting for about two years now (don't freak, we've sent pics of our faces with our names written on our hands, I stalk him on facebook, etc.- I know he is who he says he is). I have fallen so hard for him and I've never even met him... I am so not that girl, but I guess I am. Anyway we went through a period when we were like barely texting (it wasn't all day every day like it always was) and so obviously I start freaking out and I tell him I love him... I wanted him to know so I wouldn't have to keep torturing myself to see if he felt the same. So he definitely did not say it back... In fact we stopped texting after that for about two months. So I'm kinda over him when all of a sudden he texts again and we talk again, all day everyday like it used to be. So obviously I fall again... (Side note: sexting was a very frequent thing with us but we never sent any nudes whatsoever) so then we sexted last night for the first time since I told him I loved him and he sent me a nude... Weird right?! Idk now im just even more confused because of course I love him all over again and idk I just feel like he wouldn't of done that if he didn't feel something for me because he knows how I feel about him... I am a very confused girl
How do u think he feels about me?!
There is a new guy at my school. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. I would always see him and make eye contact during passing time to go to our classes. I know some of his new friends, and whenever I would pass him in the halls he would always look at me or he would mess around with this friends to try to "act cool". He got my snapchat from someone and we started snapchatting on there for hours. Weeks went by and he still talks to me. But then on the weekend he snapchatted me and asked if I wanted to go to a movie or something that night and I did. We talked at school for the rest of the week. He wanted to set up two of his friends. One from his old school and one from our school. He asked me if I could go and he said "I really want you to even though there will be other people there". That was on Saturday. It was awkward since I didn't know the people and he was the only one that all of us knew. I didn't really talk much cause the guys were doing most of it, but me and the girl did talk a little bit. Not much though. Now on Monday he saw me once and didn't say anything. We usually smile and say hi.
We don't usually talk in school cause we don't have any classes together and our lockers are on total opposite ends. (I'm still in the junior area even though I'm a sophomore) But we talk all the time on the dates.
And the friend that he brought from his old school is a girl that he's known for 7ish years and are REALLY close .
I'm wondering if by me not talking much or it being awkward on that Saturday during the double date that something went wrong? Do you think by her being really close with him she said something bad about me or said something about me that he didn't like?
Nothing went wrong or bad during it! We were with everyone during it so no one was ship seeing or talking by themselves.
When he has mentioned her before he has always said "don't worry. She's like a sister to me so I would never date her." -reassuring me
I'm in the very early days of a relationship. My boyfriend is wonderful in many, many ways but he's got eating habits from hell and I've always been very very healthy. I'm struggling because he always makes comments about needing to go to the gym to get in shape (and I'm sure he does, he'd be at risk of type 2 diabetes) so he's obviously self conscious about it but then he's suggesting that we eat junk food. Is there some way to help? I'm at a loss because I'm not sure that I can handle being with someone that has that kind of lifestyle long term. And yet we really do get along so well and seem like a great match in other ways
He added me on Facebook! He claim he's been watching me for awhile! We finally meet in person and have a nice brunch and good convo! Before meeting he'd always text me Good Morning and Have a good day! He does the same now, but he doesn't answer the phone like that and we've never had a long phone convo! So I'm confused on if he's feeling me or not?!?
Is he into me? Or Is he too BUSY to talk? But isnt it nice he sends me a GM text every morning?!? Ion know man