So this guy and I have been friends since the first day of classes. We hooked up on my birthday and then continuously after that. We eventually dated – and broke up because he "wasn't ready for a relationship". We didn't talk for a while and then we decided we can be friends with benefits. He took me out for dinner a couple nights ago, and now wants to have an overnight trip with me to somewhere.
Is he still considering me an fwb or is he thinking that we're back to seeing each other? I don't know what to think.
UPDATE. Had my 3th date with this guy I really liked on friday evening. At one stage we were making out and had the feeling he was getting too exited so let him know I didn't want to have sex YET. He seemed upset and 15 minutes later said he was tired and left. I was wondering all weekend what I had done wrong and thinking I had made a mistake and I should have given him 'something' to keep him. Well, 3 days have passed and no contact, yesterday I was feeling rejected and awful all day.
Don't have any question. Just wanted to let you all know that thank to your advice girls I'm feeling suprisingly well!!
The main important is I got rid of a guy who just wanted to have sex and was not at all interested on me as a person.
I'm feeling much stronger and allready looking for next guy to test.
Girls, let's don't let them treat us likean object. Love yourself and don't settle for guys like this.
This one is allready blocked in my phone. If he tries to contact me again, sorry, not good enought after 3 days.
I have a boyfriend I have been dating him for about 7 months. But another person came along and I really like him. I've been hanging out with him for a few days now and he really likes me too. He makes me really happy and so does my boyfriend. But he leaned in for a kiss. So we did. Now it's gone way to far. I have to choose between him or my boyfriend.
I don't know who to choose!? I like them both! What am I gonna do?
ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now..
i was clearly interested in his personality by the first couple months
and after that.. Booom!
sudden changes; he started putting me over his friends, he'd cancel a plan with his friends to see me for 5 minutes, excessive texting (wanting to know where am with whom i and what am i doing), good with anything i say, he'd invite himself to go out with me and MY friends and he is clearly going out of his comfort zone for me. He was totally different at first but everything he does shows he cant do it without me
WHAT TO DO? "i really dont wanna be hurting him" he has always been gd to me
Now a day after he says "I think we need to take a step back and I don't mean end things" if I wanted to end it I would say. He was saying he hasn't been happy lately and not because of me. We work together and now things are weird well just say hello.
I've been friends with my Bestfriend for 4 years and I've recently came out and said I was bisexual. She said it was fine and she didn't care. However, ever since then I have been falling madly in love with her. When I first met her I thought she was either bisexual or a lesbian, but Idk what she is.
I can't hold my feelings in much longer and I don't want to ruin our friend ship. What do I do. Should I tell her how I feel?
Me and my ex broke up on October 9 and we have had zero communication with each other until I received that text. This is our second time breaking up and the reason we broke up this time is because he became distant, started dating other people, and I started accusing him of cheating. He basically accused me of cheating and his last text message to me was "Lets just drop this and you go do whatever you got going on" to end the relationship.
I guess Im confused as to why he texted me and still have my number. Is he going to try and text me every holiday? Is it an ego thing to see if I would reply? Is he trying to ease back into my life? Should I have replied back?
ok so me and this boy have texted for like 8 months, except we met because I banged his best friend, and that's how we started talking. I recently just came out of a short term relationship and all of a sudden This boy has gone from a best friend to a bae except for my one problem, ok so I'm sure he likes me and all but he really wants his friend that I banged not to find out that me and him are together, but yet he still comes to my house often, we've never had sex or had a sleepover just been fun little hang outs but I don't know if it's worth getting attached to someone who doesn't even want their best friend to find out? Like I don't want to have to keep a big part of my life a secret, he has only told one of his friends about me and him seeing eachother
what should I do?
We met about 4 months back on tinder. Well we started talking two days before I had to leave the country. Now I'm in another country for my studies and I'm returning back this decemeber. We couldn't meet up even though he wanted to. We have been talking every single day about everything about our lives. He is pretty honest with me and he does tell me that if he met a girl. But he always tells me its never serious. And if I met someone and went on a date I'll tell him ( which happened once ). He knows I like him a lot. And he did admit that he does think about us dating. But since we have never met what ever is there isn't real and he needs to see the real life compatibility. We used to have smoking hot sexting and it was all fun, he used to tease and flirt. He cares a lot about me and even my family. And we cannot exactly stay without texting for a day. One day I avoided him and he was like, why are you mad at me ?.
He knows eveything about my life and he too. We thought about skyping but decided not to because we wanted to hear the voice for the first time. He is a very busy person but manages to find time for me. We text in an average of one and half hours everyday inspite of the 10 hour time difference. He is investing a lot of time on someone who is thirteen thousand. Km away. We are on eachothers social media, like facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram etc and keep updating about our lives, family etc.
Now the thing is, I just have around 17 days left to meet him. And I'm really nervous. And we always had this amazing online chemistry on. Even sexual flirting was perfect. Past one and half weeks he has been not flirting anymore. We talk a lot, he still cares. He scolds me when I don't take care of my health, he told about our meet. and try to make a conversation when I'm not replying. I know for a fact that there isn't any woman . last time he has been with someone was like a month back. He has been sick for a while. Plus he is doing his engineering so he is busy too. But there is not even a line of flirting. It makes me wonder whether he doesn't find me attractive or like me anymore.
I was seeing someone for 3 months. At first it went well but I'm not the type to fall in love quickly. Fortunately, I found out gradually that he was playing around and also kept seeing other women while seeing me. I decided to dump him because first, I don't want to waste my time and second, after finding out his habit of lying (saying I was the only one for him but also texts other women the same thing) I was emotionally done with him. I wished him luck while walking away voluntarily because without me, he's still happy with other girls. But this guy just keeps texting me out of the blue asking: "Is everything ok with you?"
He is definitely seeking for attention. What would be your best action if you were in my position dealing with this jerk?
So this guy I met him on tinder we were fwb until I left for college. Then all of sudden he started to text me that he wants to have sex. I meant I expect that because we were fwb. But then last Saturday was 3am in the morning, he texted me saying what's up blah blah blah then I asked him to come up to visit me in school (half joking) and he said he will then he drove 3 and half hours to visit me. We cuddled but no sex. In the morning he left saying his parents will worry about him. I kept saying that we were fb whenever he compliments on my look or my body. But he said just a memory. He's 26 and I'm 22. We've been known each other about an year.
While we were texting he said im a smart and cute sexy girl. But I told him that I don't believe it. And the fact that he drove 3 hours to just to cuddle with me at 3am in the morning... Idk. He texted me saying "thank you for having me :)" what is he doing? He said he doesn't think us as fwb just a memory. Is he trying to be nice? Or just to get in my pants? He could find another girl to have sex easily ... I don't understand.
My boyfriend said he wasn't feeling well and I was just kinda trying to make him feel better and said I would give him a hug and he said he was a germaphobe. It kinda hurt my feelings.
Does this seem rude or mean? Or am I just over reacting? Thanks.
So I met this guy at Tinder a week ago. He's english I'm spanish. Arranged a date on saturday after texting back and forth for a few days. We met at 9,30 pm and extended untill 4,30 am.
During the last hour he kissed me and hold my hand. Asked me to his place which I rejected.
Then I heard nothing from him till this morning (monday) and we've texted again back and forth all day joking around.
My doubt is I've seen he's been in Tinder yesterday and today so keeps talking to other girls. Don't have much experience on online dating and never met an english guy. So..Is it normal and acceptable? Do you think he is interested?
He's such a handsome and well educated guy and never thought he would like me.