By fashionista030_2 | Oct 05 2015
Why does an ex message you then doesn't reply?
By bnicole | Oct 03 2015
So I matched with this guy on Tinder on Tuesday, he asked me out for drinks the following Friday and we met up. I was really into him right from the beginning. We drank and talked for hours, and when I stepped away to go to the washroom he paid for everything! We left and walked around for a bit, he offered me his jackets because it was cold out. We went to my place after and talked for hours well into the night. He finally kissed me which turned into heavy making out and he attempted to initiate sex. I told him I didn't want to and he stopped right away. He spent the night and we cuddled and he woke me up kissing my forehead in the morning. It was the perfect night. I cannot stop thinking about him. He's already mentioned getting together again!
By saneb42kidz | Oct 04 2015
I met a man a year ago and I'm confused about an odd situation that's starting to occur...
By neefflove | Oct 04 2015
Is that thing about some guys being intimated by girls a myth or not?
By happygirly | Sep 28 2015
What do I do?
By gothicrose22 | Sep 26 2015
How do i know if i'm a guys rebound or not? How do i know if he is serious about wanting to be with me?
By janedoe_3 | Sep 27 2015
Is a drunk man's actions really how he feels? Or is he just seeing me as an easy target because he knows how I feel about him?
By jesscaalove | Sep 22 2015
Well bobby and I have been talking off and on for 3 years, he always disappears and he didn't respond to a text for 4 days until tonight...
By jb2 | Sep 21 2015
I met up with this guy from online. He texted me the next day saying he had a great time. He had alluded to doing something again during our "meet up." We texted every day for about a month after that...he texted first 60% of the time. The problem: no second date. He would say things like "when can I see you again?" Or "I want to see you this week if you want, but I'm kinda busy every day." (What?). He went out of town every weekend for various things and would send me pictures from each place. He would also talk about things he wanted to do together such as running, playing pool, making dinner. Yet he was always too busy with work and soccer, but promised that the busy time would end soon. Cancelled what was supposed to be our second date, but kept texting me every day after that. Finally, I got fed up and called him out for stringing me along. He said he wasn't and wanted to hang out again, if I did. Still nothing. Was I just an ego boost? He had added me on Facebook a couple days after meeting in person, and there's no evidence of a girlfriend or anything.
By jennife700 | Sep 21 2015
After becoming quite close over 3 month time period we had a misunderstanding, I behaved poorly and probably really freaked him out. He apologized and wanted to work it out but I was sleeping and never responded to his texts, I decided out of embarrassment and hurt to just do no contact for awhile. He responded by going on such an intense drinking binge he was hospitalized. Detoxing, acute pancreatitis, etc. He'd posted on fb that his phone was lost (that night of our altercation)....we texted minimally during his hospital stay, he said he needed peace and that he didn't know of anything I could do for him, I'd offered to come see him, make him laugh...but also indicated I was hesitant as he needs to get well. He was always updating me (instant messaging) regarding his prognosis. I was really tired of feeling confused! So I messaged him saying its best if he doesn't contact me anymore, and what response would he think I'd have when he said he was in hospital? I did the stupidest thing and forwarded him all of his own texts when he had profusely apologized for being a dick earlier in the week. For the most part I was all about NO CONTACT thdn requested that he stop contact as well .... My heart still hurts, its been 10 days or so, miss him but getting a little better everyday. Question is: WHY did he "like" my fb post less than a week after I said no more contact? Is he trying to reach out? Does he just like the picture? It indicates I'm in London, after 6 years of being fb friend this is one and only time he's ever "liked" one of my posts! What's with this guy? I thought it was bold. I wonder if I'm reaching for something behind it....please help.
By clueless_7 | Sep 21 2015
Dating 3 guys now. Just need to know I am on the right track.
Guy 1: Divorced with 2 kids. Ex-wife in another country.
Met him online, and have been out on two dates so far. Both were good dates. We went for dinner and drinks. He paid both times, and text to ask if I got home safe even though he walked me to my car both times. I like that he always ask me out in advance and will make reservations.
He travels a lot. Our dates have been quite spaced out because of that. He faded for 2 weeks before he reached out yesterday saying he's been busy trying to secure a deal, and have been flying a lot. He says he wants to see me again when he is back. I have not replied. He also said previously he likes to take his time to know people and not rush into things.
I think his interest level seems low even though he always messages first. I also don't know how I feel about him being divorced with children. Nothing against them, but my preference is to date people who have not been married, and have no kids. It was a dealbreaker for me, but I thot I should try to be more flexible in my thinking. Should I give this guy a chance?
Guy 2: Single and no kids.
Met him online on same app as Guy 1. Been on 1 date. He didn't make plans, I was the one who suggested the place and made reservations. He paid and dropped me home since I did not drive that day. I felt the conversation during the date was not as interesting. But our text messages are. He volunteers with kids, and I feel like he has a good heart.
He has been messaging, but no 2nd date in sight. He's been travelling for work and was sick. I feel his interest is low too, since he did not make plans to meet again. The messages are a little boring, so I did not try to continue. He messaged again saying I seem busy after the silence for a few days. I replied saying I told him last time I don't reply to things I cannot reply to. He started a new conversation, but still, no date suggested.
Do you think he's just wasting time? It took him a few weeks before he asked me out last time. He drives a very flashy sportscar which I was not expecting. I think that screams player, but I know I should not judge based on that.
Guy 3: Went on 1 date. It was pretty casual . He asked on Sun if I was free on Mon, and I said we will play by ear since I don't know if I have to work late on Mon. This guy asked me out earlier before but we have to cancel because he had to fly for work, but he told me beforehand he might be on standby, so okay, no big problems when he cancelled 1st time. He was also apologetic, and kept texting in between.
He didn't make reservations for dinner. He paid, but the date was strange. He made a bad sexual joke about nuts, which I felt was distasteful. He also mentioned he just got out of a 5 year rs, which I think red flag. Then he went on to say he is adjusting to single life and having to do chores. Then he asked if I am any good at them. So I think double red flag. Like he is looking for a maid not a date.
He followed me on Instagram aft the date because we talked about it during the date. And when I got home, I went to check his out. The shock was 8 weeks ago he was with his wife on holiday. I don't even know he is separated now or what. I started talking to him 3 weeks ago.
He keeps messaging me even though he is away for work now. I don't feel like replying, but I dunno if I should hear him out. He did say he knew things were not working well in his 5 year rs 1.5 years ago. I just did not know he was talking abt a wife, not a gf. Should I bother texting back and find out more on 2nd date. Or just drop now? I dun mind getting to know him or dropping him. I just want to know if I am eliminating too fast.
By msamberjade | Sep 19 2015
Normal to feel disconnected?
By neefflove | Sep 19 2015
Am I a home wrecking bitch?
By rachel_2_2 | Sep 18 2015
Why is He doing this?
By eliza624 | Sep 18 2015
Is my best guy friend into me???
By ghost101 | Sep 17 2015
we kissed on the weekend, she said she would tell me when she is free and still hasn't called