How do you forget someone, in a positive perspective.? I have a guy friend that well is more than just dear to me.. And I won't be in contact with him for a long time, and he won't get out of my every thought. He thinks of us as just friends, even if at one point we were inseparable. When he leaves, how shall I forget about him (at least for a little.! My mind needs to take a break from him.!) yet still be able to think of fond memories we've shared together, every once and a while.? Should I be looking at other guys so that I'm not so hung up on him if it's not going to go anywhere with him.?
So I've been seeing this guy for a month.. He keeps saying he doesn't want me to send pictures or be with any other guys.. So this is kinda our exclusivity chat....
Me: so you want me to yourself huh? Only if the same rule is applies to you... Xx
Him: Yes !!!! Haha .. :) xx
Me: sooo... I guess that means we're exclusive? Xx
Him: exclusive as in :P .. Xx
Me: Erm... Being together.. Not seeing anyone else :P xx
Him: time will only tell ;) xx
Me: well if you don't want me to see anyone then it has to be the same for you... So that"s basically being exclusive with each other right? Nothing changes, just know for sure where we stand... :P xx
Him: yh indeed hahahaha .. Okay night then xxxx"
What does he mean? He was the one saying he doesn't want me to see anyone else...
I've been dating a guy for almost six months, He's not much of a texter but when we're together he makes me really happy the problem is im always wondering if he's going to leave me because there are tons of beautiful girls out there and i know him I know he likes other girls when they walk dwn net to him and he watches porn because he likes big boobs and butts (something i dont really have)
I just want to know if I should talk to him about it or maybe if someone has some advice so i can stop being so insecure about myself that could be great. Its just.. for the first time in years im feeling like im falling in love for real but all of this thoughts are ruining it, i think about it everyday when we are not together
I've been going out with this guy since October 2013. Two months after we started dating I asked him about us and he said he didnt want a relationship right now he just wanted to see where things go. We've been together since then, no fights, no problems, we're exclusive, i know his family, his friends and he knows mine. We started to get intimate on march and since then we've been having great sex. It feels like we're on a relationship so I've been acting like a gf. I cook for him, we cuddle and watch movies, etc etc but I have a little problem... Im a really horny girl and everytime we're alone i always make a move just to turn him on, I need your advice because im guessing deep inside me, turning him on makes me feel like Im being a good gf but i dont want it to be all about sex and that he gets bored of that.
Its my first real boyfriend I dont know how to act! Does anyone has any advice on how to keep the love and passion light up without it turning into a blowjob all the time?
My best friend's bf just broke up with her, but he told her he still likes her, he just isn't ready for a relationship. They are still talking and have been texting, but just as friends. My friend still really likes this guy, and it's obvious he still likes her. They had been dating for about 2 months.
Why would a guy do this?
I have a male friend I have known for close to 10 years we saw each other at a party an hooked up mostly becz I was drunk.After the incident we continued talking an laughed off what happened.If anything we have become extremely close to a point his called me the one an his best friend.But after I moved else where for my tertiary studies we continued talking an started meantioning even presuing a relationship.But due to distance we didn't think it would workout so I decided to move on an I'm currently in a relationship.When my friend foundout he wasn't exactly thrilled about my decision an also moved on.We still remain talking an he jokes about me wanting something more out of him and him being the one for me even though he keeps bragging that his happy in the relationship his in now because he doesn't have to share her with anyone
Is it possible that maybe my friend still has feelings for me regardless of his contious comments stating that his moved on an happy an y does he ignore texts that I send him stating that his fallen for me as a joke?
I always seem to say and do the most embarrassing things in front of this guy at the wrong time. I ask a lot of questions and probably get on his nerve. I really feel embarrassed afterwards. lately I have been told that I am complicated.
has anyone else experienced this. and if im so complicated why is he still around ?
Hi, anyone been through this? I haven't 'dated' for awhile but am now relearning stuff. What does it mean when he and you have been on dates, then, he, the rare texter, texts you to see how you are but doesn't make plans? You reply. He texts back. Then, that's that for that conversation until the future.... when he does it again? What is this if you are not friends? Is this an "I need attention" thing or subtle booty call thing? (NB, I did not do booty with him).
Why do some guys text you to see how you are (when you have always just dated and not been friends beforehand) and then not follow through on making plans? Obviously, I know he isnt' boyfriend material but I am just very curious about why some guys do this? Thanks!
I was with this guy for 3 weeks and everything was going great until I lied about something and I talked to my ex. I love this guy and I have told him that I don't want my ex. But after that we broke up and I'm trying to get his trust back and trying to get him to fall back in love with me.
How can I get his trust back and get him to fall back in love with me?
I met this guy on Tinder, he great. We've been in maybe 8 dates and have been hanging out a little over a month. He calls me "babe" and is very affectionate but I can see that he is still on tinder, daily. Does this mean he's not really that into me? Should I assume he's dating other people?
I made out with my ex boyfriend..and he told me we would hang out Friday. Well I realized I had already made plans with the girls for that night so I called to cancel and he got upset. Then I texted him to see if he wanted to hang out another day,and he told me he'd text me after work but hasn't replied to any of my texts. Is he genuinely angry or is it safe to say I should just drop the situation and move on?
Hey hey all, Happy Easter!! :))
I'm the lady who posted lately--man was becoming distant after I acted all emotional (meaning he all but disappeared on me). He then, this last Friday, told me when I ASKED point blank "hey, I like you, what's going on" that "I do like you but I have a problem. I have become closer to Christ and don't want to have sex anymore". I asked "does that mean you want me to just leave you alone?" and he said "no". He for the first time in MONTHS actually called me that night, and we had a very brief convo about nonsense. He invited me up the next day to see his new house and I did go yesterday. The thing is, we always have an AMAZING time when we are actually together, it is the texting/communicating when we are apart that has always been a struggle.
I've known from day 1 of dating him that he was a "weird" texter,meaning he is very short about it, does not text often, hours can lapse between replies, but yet gets hurt if I don't reach out to him. Last night we had an amazing day together-8 hours, he was affectionate, complimentary, took me out to a fancy dinner, hung out with his friends, etc. As I was leaving I decided to lay it all on the table and say I was confused. He said "how so" and I said "by you". and I procedded to give him examples of how we have barely communicated and it doesn't feel like he wants to see me. I asked "have you lost interest in me" and he said "no". Then he went on to say I guess that is just something I am bad at (communication) and need to get better at. I told him "Well,it just makes a girl feel like you really don't care". He went on to say he is really bad about it lately because spring practice has started (he is a college football coach and recruiter) and also because of the issue. I asked him "what issue" and he said he was referring to the fact that for several weeks now he has been thinking he no longer wants to have sex. Then he said "But we talked that out (via text) and that's good". I assured him I meant what I said, that he is way more important to me than sex. We are both early 30s and I would much rather have a man close to God that treats me well over a man who just wants sex all the time. He thanked me for understanding and told me he'd "step it up" with the communication and get better.
That being said, time will tell, but at the end of the day, maybe I just need to relax myself. If the man treats me so well in person, does texting every day really matter that much?
I used to like this dude but I told him i didn't want a relationship. Well we became really close friends and IDK i think a lot of lines were blurred because basically we spent too much time together skyping and hanging out and texting.
Anyway we haven't talked frequently for the past 4 months... I tried to ask him whats wrong but he keeps blowing me off and not answering me... tried to be friends again and I asked whether wanted to hang out but he always says maybe etc...
Yesterday I got super drunk at a party with some other group of friends. He tweeted me so in my drunken stupor I just called him because i thought it would be fun. And i just asked him why don't we talk anymore and i missed talking to him...
Anyway he eventually told me that he just wanted me to be happy without me seeing him as a relationship partner cos i didn't want to date.
Does he still like me? AND if i wanted to date is that option even open for me?
I'm just sort of curious lol it's been so long.