I've known this guy for about a year and just before summer he showed some interest (ie, messing with my phone, putting his number in it, going on a walk with me). But I never could tell if he wanted more. We catch up with eachother every once in awhile and this is mid convo last night, talking about finals:
Him: Me neither. Home is a callin. I'm sure you'll do great though.
Me: Thanks, I sure hope so!
Him: You will! It has been freakin freezing! I need a cuddle buddy lol
Me: I know, even i can't get used to this weather! And I hear stuffed animals are good for that lol
him: I left all my stuffed animals at home lol
Me: Well I guess you could ask your roomate but he might not be down with that...hahaha
Him: Indeed he would not be lmao that's not how we roll
Me: I didn't think so haha Well, looks like you're just gonna have to make do without haha
Him: lol truth
So what is this? Was the whole cuddle buddy thing him fishing for something or was it just a random topic of conversation? It just seemed a little out of left field and I'm confused as to how he sees me.
Okay so I posted before about meeting this guy online 3 months ago and how we've never met or skyped, but that I was starting to really like him and I thought he liked me…well I took your guys' advice and searched his images on google and his instagram and twitter popped up under an entirely different name than the one he gave me. Long story short it looks like he has a gf and doesn't even live in california like he said he did…he lives in freaking Oklahoma! So basically I texted him to f**k off and then we started fighting over text for a few hours. Everything about him was a lie, even his name and when I confronted him about it all he denied having a gf and moving to cali because she was "crazy". He literally had me seething and I just wanted to vent to you guys because I am so upset. I literally couldn't even cry I was that mad.
So my question to you guys is why is he trying to continue something with me he and I both know can't work? He has a gf and if I'd known that sooner I would've cut everything off with him because that's not fair to anyone involved.
He posted on twitter a couple days ago that he loves his gf and she posted back that she loves him…why would he do something like that to her and get me involved with no intention of ever meeting me?
It's just so frustrating…I know i'm done with him for good now but I need some answers and since he's willing to give me nothing I need some advice from you guys.