Two years ago, I met an indian guy when I went to Africa for a community project. During that time, we just met for a few times. But it is very very obvious that he liked me as others noticed. When i come back to my country, he texted me from time to time. On the valentines day of each year, he told me he loved me and kept asking me if I had a boyfriend. Until this year's Valentines Day, he said he would come to my country and said he wanted to find a job here. I told him I am not convinced by long distance relationship. And I feel like i dont really understand much about him as we just texted but didnt even skype for one time during these 2 years. He said he would wait for me and it is okay that I dont like him but he would still like me. Since then, he says good morning and good night to me almost everyday. My question is I dont know whether I should trust him and should I start this long distance relationship which may have no future?
Do you guys think he is a trustworthy guy and should i start this long distance relationship or dont continue this confusing relationship with him? I feel like i am thinking of him always. But at the same time, i feel so insecure about him and the future of this relationship. Please help me:(
I use to like a guy name ali in my school n so I added his czn ahmed on FB ,
Thz ahmed became my really good frnd even though he was in Pakistan and me in dubai Still he knew all secrets abt me as well as I knew his too.
I gave him my mob no. after a year when I feel secure to give
Jst bcuz of me he changed his dp of wtsapp as my parents r strict…its now 6 months he dint put his dp but instead he put flowers etc …. We talk to each other every single night since we became frnds
And on wtsapp from 11pm till 1am we chat and we really don’t know wt we chat n how the time passes
If I don’t text him he text me immediately if I am fine or not
He tell me every single problem about his family
He have a gf who keeps on breaking up with him but now he starts hating her n told me he is waiting for a breakup…If I texts him he texts me 1st than texting his gf
He even say U r perfect n I love being ur frnd
Bcuz of me he fought with his gf , when his gf told that break you frndship with that girl
He instead said: I am ready to breakup with u but I wil never ever leave tht girl ..thz happened 3 times n not only with his gf but also his cznz ..he told me an year later that this was the reason of tht fight tht happened last year, n I was so shocked…..I told him y dint u tell me, He said bcuz I dint wanna loose u
Moreover , he asked me tht how to propose a girl, I said him y r u asking me ..n then I told him few ideas n asked the reason y wr u asking me , He said he wanted to propose his X gf But he actually dint propose her….. he tell me every single thing tht he expect his wife to do
I am 100% sure he cant live without me at all, even-though he live in Pakistan n me in dubai ….He told me he don’t make frnds bcuz everyone hurts n even I know he have only 2 frnds n not more closer than me…
he knows tht after n year I am shifting Pakistan And he keeps on saying me tht he is w8ng for tht day to meet me….
Now I am not sure he loves me more than a friend or not ? bcuz to be honest I am falling in love with him… So I want to make it sure but how ?
Been dating a great guy for 2 months now. We had a bit of an issue with him not initiating texts anymore after a few weeks od dating, but always treating me really well. We talked it out and he definitely picked up the slack on his end. Anyway, latest dilemma: (And just a bit of a precursor: In the past he told me: "I think you are hot, you have a nice body, and the sex is amazing, but I want to actually get to know you".)
I had a bit of a female problem this week. I had to stay in the hospital overnight. He knows this. I am bleeding and in pain. I will leave it at that.
So, tonight I call him and we have a nice lovely talk. He tells me he misses me (haven't seen each other in 2 weeks due to my travel schedule and icy roads from snow storm). I tell him I have a friend coming to stay with me tomorrow to help take care of me. He says "Can't you kick her out and let me come take care of you instead". I thought that was sweet. I said I'd think about letting him come over to see me, but it would depend on how bad I was hurting. We had some more sweet talk, he thanked me for calling, and hung up.
Later that night I text him good night. He usually NEVER replies to my Goodnight texts because he falls asleep early. Instead, he replied "Goodnight love" (He has never called me "love" before). Then he said he missed me. I told him I missed him too. Next came this which is what my question is about:
He said: "I want to hold you and make love to you".
This is a FIRST that he has ever mentioned sex (and yes, we have slept together before).
I mean the text itself was sweet I guess. BUT, I had just told him hours earlier that I had to stay in the hospital and was in pain. And here he is sending me 'I want to make love to you".
Maybe I am just overreacting...
Anyway, my response was: Babe, I am going to be out of commission for a few weeks. Gonna have to find you a new lady if that's what you want".
He immediately responded "Ha. No, I can wait".
So we've been in a relationship for about 5months now and before that he was my best friend, and he is super sweet. We tell each other everything, he says i'm technically his diary and he tells me stuff no one else knows. he can spend the whole day just texting me and nobody else, unless they text him 1st, we spend a lot of time together and ish. main point is , its obvious that he likes me alot, but when it comes to saying "i love you", he hasn't yet.
everytime i use the word "love" to explain about something, its like he gets edgy. and he has expressed before that he thinks "love" is a very strong word.
like why isn't he saying he loves me, like is it cause he doesn't or is he waiting on something? note:i have never told him that i love him.
I have this guy friend, Mal, who I met first year university. We had 2 English classes together and would study and do projects together. When I met him first semester I was dating a guy from my home town, but the long distance wasn't working and we broke up the third week of school. Then a month later I started seeing this other guy from my English class, Andy. He transferred into the class late and it was instant attraction. Anyway, he and I started an open relationship. For the duration of the semester the first guy (Mal) and I only hung out at school and then we started to invite each other to parties. I was on residence and he was still at home since he lived near the school. So, naturally we never went to the same parties and thought it'd be nice to branch out. But whenever he would invite me to parties he would only invite me; not the guy I was seeing, or my best friend, or my roommate. Only me. I would ask if my friends could come and he would say, "oh, yea, sure." And when he would come stay at rez with me he wouldn't bring anyone else. Except his friend Bryce on St Pattys day. My friends said he was "wheeling" me and that Mal didn't want to be plutonic with me. The year ended and I ended up switching schools. I moved a city over. Andy and I ended due to me leaving and Mal and I slowly stopped talking. It was my fault, I was preoccupied with my new program and living with my sister. And I did get a new boyfriend which also made me not look back to my previous year. Eventually when my 3rd year of school started, I switched schools again and moved closer to my hometown. Again, I ended another relationship because of my moving. As it turned out Mal was going to the same school. He had switched second year, and I didn't know. So, we started talking a lot and hanging out and studying together. We started to have drinking nights together and make drinking games out of whatever was on TV. He is always saying, "so when are you free next?" And, "we should drink again soon." Whenever we hang out I usually go to his place. (I like going places more so I can choose to leave when I don't want to be social anymore rather than being rude and have to kick said person out.) He has this weird futon couch that's broken in the middle so it makes you sit closer whether you want to or not. And sometimes I notice that he inches closer, or leans over more. Then, last weekend when we watched Star Trek (my favorite movie) we were joking about Vulcan eyebrows and tried to do weird things with our eyebrows. This resulted in us just staring and laughing at each other wiggling our eyebrows for like 5 minutes. It got kind of weird... Cause he just kept staring. Mind you, we were tipsy. He said I could crash if I was too drunk or if I didn't feel like walking home (we live like 10 minutes from each other), but I opted to walk home because I did have class the next day (Friday) and I needed to shower and what not. He has said 3 times that I can crash at his place. He has a 1 bedroom place and a broken futon. I mean, I've shared beds with my guy friends no big deal. But it's always been obvious that nothing more was going to happen. Sometimes they were in a relationship, sometimes I was, or they were gay. Either way, it was completely plutonic. But I get this vibe from Mal... I'm not into him. I see him as a really good friend and I don't want anything more. Not even from him really. I'm enjoying the single life for the first time in a while. We do have a fair bit in common, but I don't feel it.
Also, he snapchats me a lot. Like, I'm in his top 3. It's usually random stuff like remarking the shit weather we have, or something he found in his house, or his food. Then sometimes it's we're making plans, and others it's inside jokes.
Am I reading too much into this? I don't want to be arrogant, that's for sure, but I sometimes get the feeling he thinks we're more. And I don't want to ask him in case it makes our friendship weird. Because, it most definitely would no matter what his answer is.
What's your opinion? Am I on a high horse? Or do you think he actually has a thing for me? :S
I've posted before about this guy, who isn't the best at keeping in touch between dates but when we see each other the conversation flows well. I went to a dinner party that he hosted and met some of his friends, during which we had made tentative plans to meet up for the next day. I didn't hear from him all day so in late afternoon I decided to message him asking if we were still on that night. He replied apologising since he had a really busy day and had gone to buy a car etc. He didn't bother to suggest another day. (Although in case it is relevant he did invite me to his friend's party the following week)
My sister tells me that he sounds like a bit of a player as he is playing games with me by just texting me whenever he feels like. Now I'm unsure of what is motives are. People have said that if he was really interested he would be pursuing me more. What is your take on it?
I have been dating this guy for 7 months. Although it sounds weird, we didn't define the relationship yet. Actually, we didn't get into this type of conversation. We just let things flow. He treats me like his girlfriend, I know his best friends, coworkers and his family as well. Also, I often have sleep overs at his house; and yes, we've been having sex. Everything looks perfect, he is loving and caring, but I miss the "official" thing. As matter of fact, we are not seeing anyone else. He's 22 and I'm 19.
Should I talk to him about that even though our "relationship" looks fine? What should I do?
Met a guy online. We've been talking since last Thursday. He's interested, sometimes no matter what if he's busy or not he always texts me back. but he doesn't really flirt, or say sweet stuff. So tonight he asked me if I was doing anything over the weekend. We've talked before about him coming to meet me somewhere near me. He also lives out of state. But anyways asked him if he's doing anything, he's gotta work. I said you should skip and come see me just kidding. Then he goes why don't you come up here instead.
So my question is if a guy is interested he'd meet me half way somewhere? Or no? He also has car problems right now. So I'm not sure if he's interested. Could use some advice.
Crush from work. Our first non work related conversation led to this text from him.
Him: So I heard that you have a lil crush on me lol
Does that mean he is implying interest or showing he's open to getting to know me?
So me and this guy dated for 7 months and broke up because he supposedly has too much to do (college applications, AP classes, ASB and scholarships) because it's his senior year. But now we started talking again on our "1 year" anniversary. However he won't make it official. This is his response. Am I over reacting? What is he thinking?
Am I overreacting? What is he thinking and what does it even mean? Please help.
Just texted co-worker who texted with me for a while( that I wanted to make love to him in Spanish) still have not heard back from him/ I am crazy about him just heartbroken he won't respond feel like I am trying it all! Please help the pathetic girl!!!
I was recently on a grad school visit and met a guy interested in the same program as me. He added me on fb and sent me a message the day I left wishing me well in travel and to let him know how the rest of my visits go. We haven't stopped messaging since then. Now, there's a chance that we'll end up at the same school together, but the chances are slim. Yet he still messages me often and asks questions to keep the conversation going if it seems like it's winding down. He has a genuine interest in getting to know me. Obviously it hasn't been that long, but I'm starting to crush real hard, even though I know we might not end up in the same place. He's just super nice and it's kinda hard not to like him, especially when I let the "what if's" start running through my head.
Basically we've only gotten to know each other via messaging, with some flirty comments here and there, but since I'm starting to crush I feel like I'm reading too much into the situation, so I need an outside opinion. Do you think he's just being friendly? Or do you think he's into me?
So I was messaging this guy on Tinder and we decided to meet up for a quick drink which went reasonably well. He mentioned doing something again soon, and as soon as I got home he messaged me asking me for my Facebook name etc. we've messaged a little after the date, and I went clubbing last night, bumped into him which was very brief and saw him hooking up with another girl
What is his deal? How do I approach the situation? Brutal honesty is needed!
I've been dating this guy for a while, recently I saw he like an online page called "chaturbate" not really sure what it is about but it's like watching girls masturbate or online sex....
Does that mean I don't please him sexually?? Is it normal for guys to have a girlfriend and still watch porn and stuff?
I had met this guy last summer and we probably had only talked twice. Then about mid January he gets my number somehow and we've been texting each other ever since. He always would text me first everyday, and he said he liked me and all that. But....for the past 3 weeks he hasnt texted me at all until 2 days ago saying that he was sorry for not texting me. (oh yeah I had texted him probably 3 times during the past 3 weeks) So we kept talking that day, and he just didnt seem the same, and usually he would've texted me the next day and strike up a convo but he didnt.
I dont want to text him because I dont want him to think that I need to text him everyday. But I really do want to text him because I'm curious if he still likes me. So I'm wondering if I should text him or not and I just need some good advice