I'm been talking with this guy for over a 3 weeks , finally we meet and was great night , took me to a nice restaurant we laughed , we talked he was really romantic and sweet. During the date he told me how beautiful I am , how smart and classy .. He help me with my jacket , walked me to my car and gave me a kiss .. When he got home texted me that he miss me already and he likes me a lot .
He is been texting me and calling , he is the owner of different restaurants around , and he need to go to one of them on Friday, he is asking me if I will like to go with him and we can can stay overnight ... He said baby think about it
What should I do ? Tell him that I will see him when he gets back ? Should I go ? One thing he is 41 and I'm 37 grow ups , I'm afraid if I go we ending up sleeping together and because is so soon will broke the chasing he needs to do .. I will have to answer to him later ..
So I'm a study abroad student in Japan. One of the guy's I've met here is super nice, to the point where I've felt amazed by how sweet he is. I feel a bit attracted to him and I'd like to get to know him better. He always responds to my messages but doesn't really initiate conversations, and most of this social interaction is taking place in my second language (Japanese) so it's kinda hard to tell where he's at, and now next week we're going to eat out somewhere. Recently he mentioned it's okay to invite other people if I wanted to. I thought this was going to be like a date-type of thing, but maybe it's more of a casual invite meant to turn into a group type of thing? Or is he shy about it being like a date? It's not necessarily terrible for me to take it slow in terms of dating abroad/not date abroad at all, but I was pretty excited.
What do you guys think?
Ok, so I went on a first date with this guy I kind of had a crush on, and he texted me "Ok and also I don't really want to be with anyone right now if that makes sense and if that's what you have been getting at. But we can be friends if that's okay." and I said "Totally. I have to work on fixing myself anyway."
then he said " I'm glad to be your friend."
I said "Me too. I don't have very many friends so I appreciate it, really. Thank you for your honesty."
He's been texting me frequently still even after he said he's not interested and he was showing mild interest in me.. but I think I may have scared him off. I've tried to ask to hang out and he tells me that I need to be the one to set it up and he's acting kind of nervious around me too now.
Is he not interested? Is it me?
So I've been talking to this boy I met on Instagram for almost two weeks now. We've already met in person and everything and we hit it off. One night we were talking and he asked me to send him a picture of myself and since he had asked me before, I didn't ask what kind of picture a sent him a picture of me. He ended up leaving me on read. And on the following tuesday when we planned to meet up I texted him again asking what time but my Imessage shows that my message was delivered but not read (he always sends me read recipets) and it's been two days and the message still says delivered. What do you think is up with him? Do you think he was disappointed with the picture? I don't understand. He knows what I look like, and I've sent him a picture before so why this now? I'm really confused. He's called me beautiful before as well.
Was it just an ugly picture? What's his deal?
sk what kind of picture a sent him a picture of me. He ended up leaving me on read. And on the following tuesday when we planned to meet up I texted him again asking what time but my Imessage shows that my message was delivered but not read (he always sends me read recipets) and it's been two days and the message still says delivered. What do you think is up with him? Do you think he was disappointed with the picture? I don't understand. He knows what I look like, and I've sent him a picture before so why this now? I'm really confused. He's called me beautiful before as well.
Was it just an ugly picture? What's his deal?
Okay, so I made out (multiple times) with this guy at schoolies last weekend. I thought it was great and that he was pretty cute. My friend that set us up at the festival said that on the way home he couldn't stop talking about me and then he asked her for my name and added me on Facebook. I was expecting him to send me a message or something, but nothing has come of it and its been over a week.
Should I try to make first contact and like his profile picture or something, or is he just not interested?
We meet once and never after as we live in different places. We text a lot and are at the point were we told one another we like each other. When he gets drunk he will call me and be all romantic, but on normal days he never calls or message , I message him after 10 pm because it got a habit of that's when where gonna talk. He talks when I call after 10 but is kinda boring sometimes. I still like him and he says he likes me to , but I don't understand why he doesn't make an effort, I kinda told him how I felt about him not messaging and calling and he got all mad saying this is the reason he broke up with his ex and he doesn't like texting all the time and stuff. He never says anything cute or flirty unless hes drunk but I know thats just his shyness and he says he wants to meet and date and then go from there. But when hes drunk hell talk about being together in future and loving me and all.
Should I tell him how I feel or is this how it should be and I should meet him date him and hopefully hes better?
Alright so theres this guy i spoke to him a couple times over twitter he really wanted to hang out with me but i always curved him cause I wasnt really into him at the time but its been a few months now i hung out with him twice and im just really into him even the silence is comfortable to us well me atleast the first time we hung out we watched a movie and at the end things got intense and we made out and all that then he took me home and i got a little kiss goodnight he's told me he doesn't really like chasing girls, but he doesnt text me or anything unless its like on a saturday when he wants to hang out the first time i had asked him to hangout but yea okay, but the second time he just cae over and got me we cruised around then went back to his place we just watched tv and chilled then we started kissing again. I stopped and said i was tired then a few ninutes later he's like youre not really easy are you i said no not really he said oh well from your tweets it would seem otherwise. Does this mean he was just trying to hook up with me? His friends have told me he's not a player ik they wouldnt lie to me because ive known the for long he's also told me himself that he's only had sex with one girl which was 2 years ago idk if he's lying or not Im just waiting to see if he'll ask me to hang this weekend if he does should i have sex with him?
So I had this thing with this guy. It's been a month after no contact. I'm not sure if he has a gf now. I'm not sure how he's acting. He responded ridiculously fast and did use my name in the texts, I'm not sure if that means anything. He used to say sweet dreams [my name] when we were together , but in this text he says goodnight [my name]. I'm not sure what it all means!
Is he just being nice or does he actually want to talk?
New guy. We met in high school over five years ago. We got in touch again from a mutual friend and it was bumpy at first and then we got close, but I think we got too close that he doesn't wanna hang out. When we hang out its all lovey dovey, but other than that it looks like he doesn't make an effort to hang. I think I'm just looking for a confirmation.
Is he into me?
Do men tend to ignore texts, or text back a long time after? My crush often responds to me hours after I first text him, even though I see him online on facebook. But, when he does text back, his responses look as if he put effort into them.
I met a really nice guy online and we had a great date this evening. This is my first one since becoming sober (my sobriety being something I've stated this in my OkCupid profile) and he arranged for use to shoot at an archery range and grab a burger after. This wasn't a typical date I go on that is often clouded up by a glass or two too much wine: our conversation was genuine, we had laughs, got personal (I know you're not supposed to talk about exes but he was the one to bring it up), and overall I had a nice time and thought he was adorable.
At the end of the date we exchanged a brief peck of a kiss and as we started to go separate ways I said "So, see you soon?"
Of course, all the while I was screaming on the inside "YOU IDIOT, DON'T ASK HIM THAT HERE!"
There was a flash of hesitation and he said "yeah" and waved and ducked into his car.
I should wait for him to text, correct? Ugh, on a scale of 1 to 10, how likely is that question a total turnoff?
And, for future reference: how do you, personally, keep from obsessing over the details after a first date? Any tried and true tricks?
We had a one night stand about a month ago. He was a mutual friend of someone on my Uni course. So after sex, he talked about going on dates and how he likes me. We met up briefly two days after where I returned his jacket, and being sober, he hinted about going on dates. Due to the fact that I am on placement in a hospital 2 hours away, I am only back every weekend. We texted and he asked about my plans on the weekend for two weeks straight, but I was always busy with other stuff. It's now been a week since we last texted, and I just texted him a general text saying sorry that I was unable to catch up with him the other week. He has been online on fb but have not actually replied back to me via text.
So I am just wondering what is he playing at? Have I left it a little too late? It the whole thing a bad timing? Was he actually interested? P.s. The weird thing is that we actually met a year ago on a night out and he was the one who brought it up. I had no idea until he mentioned it because who would actually remember a stranger from a year ago?!
Conoci a un chico en otro psis cerca del mio.el me dio alojamiento en su casa cuando llegue a su ciudad de vacaciones. Enseguida tuvimos onda, aunque el me advirtio que nunca tuvo pareja estable porque le gustaba la libertad. Yo disfrute el momento junto a el porque era muy cariñoso pero no expresaba bada con palabras. Es de una personslidad muy timida y extremadamente reservado y callado. No dice cosas lindas a una mujer.pero e s muy tierno en caricias y miradas. Yo volvi a mi pais sin decirnos nada con la idea de que tal vez no volveria a verlo. Sin embargo comence a escribirle de vez en cuando para no perder contacto. A escribirle como smiga, sin hablar de lo que paso entre nosotros y sin pedir o preguntar nada. Con el tiempo el respondia con cortesia mis mensajes, pero el por iniciativa propua no escribía. Un dia aburrida de contactarne x wassap decidi escribirle cartas, cartas de correo comun( lapiz y papel)._esas cartas nunca hablaron de smor, ni de un nosotros, solo queria resaltar sus virtudes y de lo bien que el me hizo sentir cuando estuve con el aquella vez. Logre que el tuviera mas contacto conmigo cada vez, hasta logre comunicarme via skype bastantes veces. Para rwdumir un dia lque viniera a visitarme y el accedio y vino a mi pais. Cuando nos volvimos a ver,fue hermoso, pasamos 15 dias maravillosos, pero ninguno de los dos expresaba con palabras nada de lo que sentiamos. Solo reoetismos que estavamos viviendo el momento y nada mas, sin promesas ni compromisos. Ahora se fue y quedamos en que yo lo visitaria en el verano. A veces me escribe wsap pero gustaríascueto, como siemore lo ha sido. A veces pasan dias y no escribe. Sus mensajes son xortos y no tienen emocion.no se que sentira y me gustaeia saber porque no expresa nada.
Despues de que saque pasaje para volverlo a ver no me escribe y cuando yo lo hago no me responde. Estara asustado? Que sentira?