Not dating just hanging out. We text back and forth pretty well for being both busy and single parents. He just stopped texting one day. I am not pressuring. I am in friend zone and fine there. But I don't know what he is thinking.
"Hey u...sorry 4 being aloof...been busy, crazy day...hope u had a good one."
wtf does this mean?
I expect respect from all people in my life on any level.
I broke up with my ex boyfriend a month ago. I have always liked my coworker, but never pursued things while in a relationship past friendship. We became good friends who hung out every once in a while, mostly in groups. When we were together, we would cling to one another and mostly talk to each other. On Friday, we saw each other at a happy hour, and we both ditched our plans to continue drinking just the two of us. We told each other we liked each other, but we had been drinking and those moments are often more intense and emotional than they would have been sober. Of course, we ended up hooking up. In the morning, we hooked up again and agreed not to make it awkward no matter what happened. I texted him later that night to make sure we were OK, and we agreed to digest what happened and figure things out later. We haven't talked for the remainder of the week.
Did I royally screw up my friendship? Is it possible to date down the road after something like this happens?
This dude I've been fwb for 6months (and I'm cool with it) When we text its straight to the point no lovey dovey stuff. He recently moved away he let me know and what not so I thought okay "fun while it lasted, the end" ( no doubt I was bummed about it) Few days later he texts so we text and then ends the convo with "talk later xo" WTF ??!!
This dude ain't gettin attached is he? Am I just reading too far into the "xo"
Me and this guy have gym together (in high school). He never looked at me or gave me signs that he's interested in me. One day he comes up to me and asks to play rackets. We play, and he's complementing me CONSTANTLY on how good I am, jokes around, get my racket for me, and he's telling who's cares when I miss it, but when I get it, he gives me a high fives, telling me we're going to win. He's smiling a lot. And then he asked to play again two days after, and it went like this too. Now when he sees me he doesn't say hi or anything.
Is he into me or is this just a game he's playing? I'm confused.
This guy (he lives in my building) and I have a bit of history since September, it started when he started reaching out to me and inviting me to do things, texting, etc. Then it increased to more and more flirting, and about a month ago after texting me that he wanted to kiss me and pretty much asking my approval, he did it in person. Now that I've started developing feelings im getting really confused. I dont see him that much anymore since he started working long hours at a new job, and he also hasnt been initiating convos quite as much since, even though he always sounds happy to hear from me when I text (sometimes when I havent texted him hell ask where ive been, etc.)
Im starting to get really impatient that things arent moving faster. I wouldve thought that now that he's made a move in person (he has to know im attracted to him) we would be dating by now. It doesnt help that I dont see him much in person, so we havent really discussed it, id rather not talk about it in text. Lately hen im free and invite him to come along somewhere he's working or something, and when he asks me to come along somewhere once in a while on one of his days off i happen to have plans then.
We were texting and I finally said to him, "lemme ask you a ques" and he said "ask (my name)." I said, "we dont really see each other, y is that" and "lol were neighbors, doesnt take much effort" and he said "lol worddd" then "i guess because i have to be free when ur home free" or something along those lines. I said "oh, i guess" and he talked about how his work hours are long and he has to manage his time better. I said "oh :l" and he asked why the face and i said, "cuz its not a good reason" and he said "u at like its a problem that cant be fixed."
i asked him what did he propose and he said "an engagement ring that way i could lock u in marriage lol" and i said "riiight how many girls u say that to lol" and he said "none but i know one who knows how to blow out the candles before the party starts" then he said "how many times do u usually ask guys if they talk to girls in a certain manner" and i said "umm is that a metaphor" and he said "yes cuz u ask as much as my mom" [ive asked him once before when sent a really flirty text, but only because i know he's a flirt]. I said "cuz u said flirting comes naturally" and then i said "some guys are all talk &no action" ...............and i got no response after that. that was a few days ago. Di d i do something wrong? Should i just leave it or say something else?
So basically I've like my best guy friend for about 6 months. We started off as friends but I quickly gained feelings for him. We got closer and both liked each other but then got in a fight and stopped talking for a while when he chose his ex gf he was with for a week over me when he said nothing would change when she came back. Now couple months later when we started talking again he has lead me on a lot sense then but he has been talking to this other girl and they have a thing. Then we hung out and cuddled and he kissed me and he told me he liked me more because we don't fight and we can see each other but he likes the other girl just doesn't like that they have never met cause it's an hour or so drive and they fight a lot and she is always telling other guys her and him are over but yet he keeps going back to her. So I texted him and wanted to talk about it and in the text he told me he liked her more and chose another girl over me again.
Why would he do this? I'm just confused why he would act like he liked me admit he liked me more but then say he didn't....I know what I herd I was laying right next to him but he says he didn't....
we were talking on and off during break. he made it really clear he didn't want a relationship. we get back to school and start hooking up for like a month. i started getting feelings after a month and i told him and he didnt answer. he seemed like he liked me too (he would stay after and just talk to me and cuddle and stuff). he then started texting me again saying whats up and stuff but i didnt really answer because i was busy. he then texted me and was like sorry for not answering and i being a jerk? i told him he shouldn't freak out that i like him because it rly wasn't a big deal and i told him he could continue hooking up (my feelings arent strong for him)
why doesn't he text me more to hang out?
could he just be scared of getting into a relationship?
why did he just completely stop talking to me on a daily basis?
Right so me and this guy have been best friends for absolute ages and he always asks me if ill send him pics of my boobs which has always been a no, he asked me again tonight and again the answer was no but then he messaged me saying this, i also called myself chubby and he said i was looking good to him
is he serious or just doing this for a picture he knows hes not gunna get?
There is this guy at my church that likes me. He hasn't said it yet but his actions speak louder than his words. I barley know him, I know of his 2 brothers (they have no sister.) Anyways He asked to sit beside me and ever since than he has. Invites me to church programs etc. There was this one time where I missed church for a couple of weeks and I don't know how he got my number since I didn't have a cell phone and he called my aunts house ( that's where I'm staying at.) He called still to see how I was even when I came back to church. He seemed very concerned. Than I got a cell phone and He started texting me. But there was this one time when I was sort of being mean to him and he gave me the silent treatment. I phoned to apologized. He text me saying don't feel bad I didn't do anything. ( even though I know I did.) Couple days later he texted me saying how's it going etc. I never text him he always initiates the text and I end them. The thing is I find frustrating is at church ( he doesn't talk to me or anything just hi and bye.) every time he sees me he like sort of runs away or keeps his distance. He always says hi and bye but that's it and it's confusing. Why be like this and still text me. Why does he have to be like this. I saw him at the bus stop he seemed really shy and intimated by me but I don't understand before he was fine.
I'm so confused. Don't know what to do anymore.
Hello from Argentina <3
Sorry for my bad English, as I said above I'm from Argentina. There's a boy in my class, he's so beautiful and I fell in love with him. About a few months ago he realized that I like him, he is kinda serious about personal things so I noticed that he didn't say anything to his friends but today, my teacher ask me for fetch a trash because in the classroom there wasn't one, the concierge said me that they will put one after and when I returned to my class and said to the teacher that he screamed something that I don't understand and then he said me beautiful... WTF ._. I don't understand him, I take the message like he is playing with my feelings but I'm not completely sure because he isn's somebody who will do that but if he supposedly loves me he would declared to me when he noticed that I like him >:c If there's an understanding error sorry I only study English not talk it (:
We are both adults, and he been my teacher during the course ive been doin. We decided with classmates to do a class dinner on saturday. We've had one before, where not so many classmates showed up, it was just 4 of us and the teacher. I was the only girl in that group and only 2 girls out of 12 in class. So 2 hrs before the dinner he texted me
"-Hey. How does it look for tonight, many ppl coming?"
and i replied: "-Sadly its not looking too good. Haven't got any yay or nay from person A and person B. And person C told me earlier today he couldn't come. I was about to cancel the whole dinner, but person D convinced me that we should go anyway. Person E and F should come at least, so i hope person A and B will show up.
Im simply curious why he wanted to know?! Last time he also asked how many we will be, and only few ppl showed up including him. And again asked... ?
I met this guy a couple of months ago who I went on two dates with but due to the fact that he was travelling we didn't see much of one another, although we managed to stay in touch through facebook messaging. Now that we're both back home, we've been on another 4 dates. While we're together, I feel very comfortable and at ease with him and enjoy spending time with him. I've met some of his friends, and one of his friend even made comments about me spending more time with them.
He doesn't contact me in between dates, and the last time we made tentative plans to go out on Saturday night, he forgot until I texted to remind him. But then he invites me to one of his closest friend's parties and made a comment about how he likes my adventurist spirit and that's why he likes me.
I'm slightly confused as to what he wants and whether he is interested in me since actions speak louder than words right?