I know i've been posting/first dates a lot lately but last night I finally met a guy I liked/good first date and he seemed to really like me to. We texted quite a bit before (i had to put off our actual date a whole week bc I had so many other dates) he brought up it was nice to *finally* meet me mult times and kept pressing about my "busy week" but I didn't give him details that I want on other dates obv. Just that I had hobby related/friends moved to town etc.
We got on the topic of online dating and I told him I just don't reply to a lot of guys anymore bc I get really strange/rude messages often. I also said sometimes people don't seem the same(personality wise) that comes off in their profiles. He said for him girls have been consistent personality wise, but sometimes he's just not attracted in person. We agreed girls get more cr*p/annoying things to deal online that guys do. I told him meeting him has't been one of the "miss matched" (profile personality not matching real life personality) experiences like my other dates and he said that was good.
Anyways he made reservations at a restaurant and confirmed a few days in advance and set me all info (place, time, address) he even offered to pick me up, but I declined as he's still a stranger and I wasn't comfortable getting into his car without ever meeting him. We had a nice dinner/covo. He even "extended the date" bc it was pretty early in the evening still so we went another place for coffee and talked some more. He also offered to drive me home. At this point I said yes bc I did feel comfortable and I have a good instinct about people.
He's out of town next weekend, but during the car ride to my place he asked if i'd be interested in getting together again during the weekday bc he was leaving for the weekend. I said yes, and any day is good for me except Tuesdays bc I have my hobby/class I go to. So we agreed for Wednesday. I told him what time I usually get home by and he said for me to think of something I'd like to do. ( I'm pretty sure he said he would try to think of something too).When he dropped me off he actually got out of the the car to say good bye to me outside of it. We hugged (and he did NOT have a move to kiss me which I appreciated) we said we had a good time, and we mentioned seeing eachother Wednesday again. I thanked him and went inside.
He texted me when he got home that night below.
I texted the next day and got this response. It took him awhile to respond (watching the game I assume) and that was the end of the convo. Does he still seem interested?
Should I hold off on texting and see if he brings up meeting up on Wednesday? I do have a date idea that i'd like to do with him. Should I mention it, or just wait for him to text me?
Well, we went out and now we are talking again. I still like him, but I don't know about him still liking me back. He asked me if I like him a didn't answer. Now he is asking all of my friends! He said he liked this other girl and when I asked him if he liked me he way over reacted. Now I don't know what to do.
Does he still like me?
I have a male new friend(just friends at this pint I think), and his texts have started to give me compliments (not about my looks just about stuff I do) and he started using words like lovely. Like he says hope that you are having a lovely day! he never used the word lovely until recently. Is this a good sign that he could be liking me as more? and don't say unless he asks you out he doesn't because we have a friendship right now and he is the type of guy that only dated women that he knew for quite a while before he would date them or have a relationship. so I want to know if his changing the way he is writing to me like using words like lovely and such means anything or not
Here's the thing. I texted this guy back in march (which make us months of texting each other) and since then we keep texting. We text each other like every day and every single hour and minutes talking about life's , break ups and what we are doing. He help me a lot during my dark times. He also often tell me how appreciated he was talking with me. Its vice versa for both of us. We never meet each other because we lived in different country. We have the same passion in everything he always said we've got chemistry. Sometimes he texts can be flirty sometimes sweet and sometimes caring like everyday and every morning he would text what im doing just for checking me up he even updated with photos and texts what he is doing and everyday i would sleep looking at his goodnight text. He even open up about his ex's to me. Is this signs telling me he like me or something else? Or its just a friend thing? Friends wouldn't text this long right? I'm tired of this and I don't know if I can't stop this because I start to grow feelings to him. Im in a complicated relationship with him. Help me.
Can we be truthful towards our feelings? Or its just me feeling like this?
So, me and this guy have been dating for 6 months so far, and as soon as school started, he hasn't been able to walk me home or even hang out with me through out the week & I understand were he is coming from, but yesterday he wanted to go to the fair and I said yeah, it was sometime around 4 that he asked when six o clock came, I became impatient, cause he was taking for ever you know. So I tested him if we are going or not and he said yeah but not right now for whatever reason. I was tired of waiting, so I just canceled on him. He said he was sorry & all but he has been doing it a lot lately, and it's just pathetic that I'm here waiting for him for like hours only to know that he is still going to drag.
Today he asked me to go with again to the fair, I don't even know if I should go? How do I tell him that I'm getting tired of him making me wait for hours, and it's annoying me, and upsetting me so much.
Ok i have been talking with a guy for four months and he is cbut ute and polite with me.
The last thing that he did was sent me a picture telling me dont forget me.im sxared he wont talk to me anymore or if he really meams that he want me not to forget. Can u. please help.me i.would appreciate it
Ah before i.forget the pic was him in a very nice pose
OK so I need some feedback here..I have been seeing a guy for 10 months we are not exclusive and I have grown to like him very much. I have been dating other guys but I really like this one guy, the problem is he is not looking for a relationship. I think he is seeing other girls too but I have not asked. I see him on a biweekly basis sometimes weekly. We usually hang out to hook up because its what we both want. So when he texts me I usually assume he wants to hang out since he doesn't text everyday but at least every week I hear from him to hang out. We have a good relationship because its what we both wanted when we met, yet I know I have become somewhat attached but I don't show it.
Last I heard from him was this past Tuesday he asked to hang out but I couldn't so I said maybe Thursday or Friday he said "OK". Come Thursday/Friday I did not text him nor did he text me. Today he text me asked me "how I was" ...I said "good...how about u". He said he was busy at work and that he wanted to hang out with me Friday but got caught up at work. He asked me "what r u doing all day"? I replied that I was at a place and would be there till 4:30-5. I am assumed he was asking bec. he wanted to hang out after work (he works till 5). I asked what time he was leaving, he said "hopefully 5". I replied "u think later" and that I wouldn't be available until about 5:15-5:30 and I asked if he was in the area ....he works by me but lives about 30 minutes away. He replied that he had to be home by 6pm (had something to do) and couldn't hang out late. So I replied "OK another time". His reply was "K".
I know I jumped the gun assuming he was asking to hang out....is that the impression u get? I am a bit embarressed and I was annoyed with his reponse reason I said "another time". He uses that stupid "K" sometimes but not often not sure if he got annoyed with me because maybe he wanted me to meet up for a few minutes? However maybe he really did just want to see "how I was" today without trying to meet up?
so i facebook messaged this guy i'm into and i don't really know what to talk to him about. So I asked him about the things he liked like guitar, piano, cross country and his plans for the weekend. It was a nice talk. Until he said he liked my hair color which made me like too over excited. SO i said thanks and i gtg so talk to you later? And he said yeah sure. The next day I messaged him again and when we were done talking I said " ttyl? " again and he said only "ya" And hes soooo smart smarter than i am so what should i say or talk to him about i'm so scared i might say the wrong thing.
how do i get him to like me? what do I talk to him about or ask him on facebook? whats the diffference between yeah sure and ya?
So, I posted before and this is an update:
I like this guy, 5 years older than me (I'm 19). He is pretty shy.
I started talking to him and we had some good conversations. Then I invited him over to play a video game. We had fun, and he asked me to do it again the next day. So we did. This time we got a little bit closer and we joked around a lot more.
A week goes by, and I saw him in a group setting, he teased me a bit. I don't initiate anything for 3 days and today he asked me if I wanted to hang out and play video games this weekend.
He came over tonight and stayed late. He sits close to me and we make eye contact and hold it. We joke around a lot and it's just fun. He doesn't try to make any moves, though.
Does he like me or is he just being friendly? It's so hard to deal with because he does stuff like sitting close to me and teasing me and laughing with me and I don't know why he would do all of this if he didn't like me, but why hasn't he made a move? Should I say something? Help!
I am going to a party tomorrow where my ex is attending,as well as his other ex, aka. the girl he dated after me. Or, the girl he left me for. We broke up like two years ago but he was my first love so I could never get over this. I don't talk to him anymore at all.
How should I prepare or react in the situation tomorrow? OMG
i have a massive problem with turning a guys gesture of kindness into him liking me. it's a terrible habit. there's this guy from school i started to like since he was treating me like he liked me. he walks me to class even when it's completely out of his way. he touches me a lot. we text a lot. i started liking him. i thought he liked me too. i was wrong. he likes our friend.
help. was i wrong to assume he liked me. am i wrong to say that just because he doesn't like me now doesn't mean he ever will
Last year I dated a sophomore and I was a freshman. We dated for about a month, but it was a pretty serious month. We had been talking for about 2 months before that and about 2 weeks into the relationship he told me that he loved me. I was shocked but said I love you too because I didn't know what to do and this was my first serious relationship and only my second bf. also he never took me out on any dates we only hung out at his house or at the park. but the only thing we did was talk and makeout. I being fairly new to dating was not entirely comfortable with this but I enjoyed it (not to be weird). Anyway I got very uncomfortable with it so i broke up with him not because i didn't like him but because i wasn't comfortable with our relationship. We ended up not talking for a while and it has been about almost 6 months since we last talked. We are now both on the cross country team and i see him a lot. Also we have a lot of friends in common so we sometimes will be hanging out with the same group. a few days ago i started talking to him, over text, again and things have been okay. But a lot of the girls on the team who are now seniors and juniors (he is a junior now too) talk about him a lot and say how him and this one girl (who he has been best friends with for 4 years) would make a cute couple, are gonna get married, etc. I do get jealous and mad when they talk about it. And mostly i just miss talking to my ex and i don't want to be that stereotypical person who is like i made a mistake please take me back.
Please help me i don't know what to do. I don't know if i still like hi, or if i just miss him or if me being jealous is bringing back feelings? Please help and respond quickly!
Been in two dates with this guy and they went well. I think he's funny and goofy but maybe not a good bf match for me.
How to I avoid this? I don't actually want to teach him to dance and I always thought he was joking... Last I told him I said I wasn't qualified to teach